i have lost him how do i get him back help!!!!?

Question

i have loved this guy since the 6th grad and so has he but some things had happend and i wasent suposto date till i was 18 so thats what we did and he asked me out and i freeked and said no so now i'm21 and he's back in my life and i had just broken up with someone had been with for 2 years and i told him i i would but i had told my mom and she said i needed 6 mounths to get over him so i told him and it was good but i started talking to him and my mom found out and got mad and said some things she should not have said and she apolagised for saying them but i was mad and he had asked and i endnded up telling him and now he thinks my family hats him and they dont i'm happy with him and my mother knows this but still wants me to have 6 months for my self. the reason he thinks this way is because he has nothing good happen to him and if it does it end's up in hell for him so he thinks thats how it will stay but thats not true and he is trying to convinse me that it wont be the way we want

i'm a christian and i need to have my mom's ok for this kind of thing and she did say that it was ok but then i started talking to him when i wasent suposto be and i got her mad and she told me that i could do better then him and i should just just for get about him but you see i have tryed that for almost 5 years and i cant and nether could he cuz i asked him and now i'm hurting because what i had dreamed almost became real and now it's lost and i want it back, now someone told me to have them talk and i want them to but i think he wont want to talk to her and i dont know what to do

Answer 1

if you love some thing set it free if it returns to you it was meant to be if not...why do you need to have permission of your family your 21 for goodness sake do what you feel is right and live with the decision otherwise you will always have what if....for the rest of your life

Answer 2

Take it from me sweetie, you can't convince someone to stay. No matter how much you love him, if he isn't willing to put up with your family or whatever he needs to do to get to you, then he doesn't love you or want you bad enough to be with you. Tell him that your true feelings and if he doesn't stay, its his loss. I know that's not easy and you'd do anything to make him stay, but you can't make the decision for them. Trust me, my man left me 15 times for all the wrong reasons. We are exact duplicates of each other it seems and soulmates. but I couldn't make him stay because of all of his "other issues" like his age, and my child, and things like that. So I know he didn't love me like he should. Same thing with you hon.

Answer 3

WHY SHOULD YOUR MOM CARE?
Talk to that guy and tell him how you feel. Let him know that you're always there for him and stuff and if he'll ask you out don't freak out. :)
Good luck.
:)

Answer 4

Don't worry, use it as an opportunity to bring everyone together.