my b/f stays up all night and sleeps all day. which gives us really no time together. on the nights that i have to work i only see him for maybe one or two hours but when i get home hes playing games and i just go straight to bed bececause im so tired. he doesnt work and doesnt really do much. what do u think i should do? tell me what u think about this?
2006-07-17 04:37:55 · 53 answers · asked by horses19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he quit his other job in april and hes says hes looking for one.
2006-07-17 04:47:14 · update #1
talk to him
2006-07-17 04:40:16 · answer #1 · answered by daddys_booga 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I can't tell you what to do because this is something you have to decide on but if I was standing in your shoes the first thing I would do is hand him the help wanted section of the paper and tell him to get a job and then I would get rid of his games and machine. You don't state how old you two are but someone seems to not be mature and pulling their weight of the relationship. It is more like you are a parent and he is just a kid looking for a free ride and doing what he wants. I would communicate to him that he needs to back off the games some and pay attention to you, he needs to get a job unless there is a physical reason why he can't work and if this is so then I would suggest that he could take care of the house and laundry to help you out in some way. Are you sure you want to be in a relationship with this person because it doesn't sound like he is really ready to be in one.
2006-07-17 04:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first he does not work and just plays games. He does not spend time with you - that should tell you something. Since he likes to stay up all night and sleep all day, he does not want to take any effort in being with you; he would rather make the effort to play games. Either he grows up or you need to let him go.
2006-07-17 04:40:24 · answer #3 · answered by dje 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. If he was really interested in you he'd try to spend some time with you.
It sounds like he's just in it for a free ride.
I'd boot him out and find a real man.
It's so nice that you're willing to support a free loader. I mean, I thought the man was suppose to be the bread-winner, the one who worked and provided for the family. What is wrong with YOU? Why would you even put up with this??? Is this all you want out of life?
I mean the problem is with you b/c if you 'allow' people to take advantage of you, of course they will.
KICK HIM OUT. (After checking to see if you have to supply him with an eviction notice).
2006-07-17 04:39:32 · answer #4 · answered by Corn_Flake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think about how your lifes are going to be in the next 5 years. Is that how you want it to be? Do you want to support this guy all your life and not even have a decent relationship? You have some serious issues you need to resolve. Either dump the loser or keep kickin him til he gets is *** off the couch and gets his life together.
2006-07-17 04:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by RAZR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 05:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hows he suppose to find a JOB when hes sleeping during the day when companys are doing the interviews? is he even trying to look for a job? tell him to get his act together or get the hell out. your not a baby sitter. maybe he just needs a good kick start. first get him back to sleeping at night then he can go look for jobs. during the day. Good luck to you.
2006-07-17 04:52:45 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like much of a " relationship ".
Find some else, and get rid of baggage that you really don't need.
Sounds like he may be using you for " the benefits".... he has a place to stay, doesn't have to pay bills, you feed him.
Kick him to the curb ! Find a real man that is willing to help you rather than be a hindrance.
You deserve to be happy too, don't you?
2006-07-17 04:46:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a total loser and a big baby. I agree with the advice above. Dump him and find a real man who has a job. I hope you're not dumb enough to support this poor excuse for a man.
2006-07-17 04:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him get a job or stay home at nights or both. What do you think he is doing staying out all night?
2006-07-17 04:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get a job or get out. Girl, if you can make it by yourself you don't need to take care of a free loader. The least he can do is spend time with you. I'm sure there are plenty of guys who are willing to be with you, spend time with you and help out with bills! Good Luck!
2006-07-17 04:42:35 · answer #11 · answered by sleeplessdreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋