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Question

Ok here's the deal, I'm not pretty, my hair is like a frizz bomb scars all over (I have Eczema) I've liked this guy who is a year older than me for around half a year give or take a few months, he is funny and smart and a bit big headed. But that makes me like him more. He is totally not my type as i don't like big headed people. Lately i've been thinking he knows I like him. Earlier I passed him in a coridor and sort of stared at him for like a second and he stared back with his moth wide open looking confused. I've tried to convince myself I don't like him, but I know I do. The only person I trusted enough to say anything about him to thinks i don't like him anymore, I could hardly have her talking about him when i was trying to forget him. I have had astronomy with him all year, that's when I started to like him. I think i should tell Muna I like him, she's a friend of mine and his, but would she tell him? you see I think he likes this other girl, Jessica,

I'm allways seeing her with him and it kills me each time. Allthough once he compared me to her "your as mad as Jessica". I could tell him i like him but he wouldn't like me, but even if i did Muna would be shocked i didn't tell her, but if i told her then he wouldn't like me for definate he would think me and Muna was lying to him or somthing. I sit next to him in Astronomy, well there is a seat between us unless we have to work together, then if he touches my hand i go bright red, and we usually end up in a contious arguement over some fact or figure. He is into criket too, know anything about criket? I allways laugh at his jokes and am soo happy around him and natural unless he gets near me, I think he knows i like him

I have my last Astronomy lesson with him today 1:30 till 3:00 and I will have to do somthing before then, when he goes in yesr 10 i'm unlikely to see him at all. I can't wear any make up besides i wouldn't if i could anyway. I've tried loads of shampoos and conditioners for my hair and 3 people one who's sister and cousin are proffesional hair dressers spending like 3 hours trying to straighten it and it stayed straight 5 minutes maximum. I have to do somthing soon, i need answers urgently!

Oh and its easy for him to accidently toch my hand when we are reading the same book!

Answer 1

just be confident in yourself and tell him , he can say he feels the same way or he doesn't unless you tell him he will never know so have a go and tell him

Answer 2

First of all do not put yourself down like that.
Can you go with one of your friends and get some conditioner so your hair will not be so frizzy? Or try dofferent styles with frizzy hair.
As with the eczema maybe you can find out what you are allergic to and solve it with medication to help with the scars.

Do not tell your friend Muna she may tell him and he might feel awkward about it when he is around you. Keep it to yourself instead some people can be mean.
The most important thing here is not to get your hopes up to high so you will not get hurt. Like you said maybe he likes Jessica.
Just keep on being his friend and get to know him each day and maybe he will eventually like you. If not I am sure there are other guys you can meet too.

Answer 3

DO NOT tell your friend. She may be a friend, but that's how rumors get started.
You should be confident in yourself. Don't ever call yourself ugly. The more you tell yourself that, the more you believe it. And nobody is ugly. I don't know if you're religious but I am and God made nobody ugly.
As for the guy, you need to tell him. Yes, he may reject you. But he may also surprise you with the return of the feelings.
Someone once told me, "Love bravely, live boldly."
If you don't say anything you will never know. And you will just keep going from day to day wondering if he likes you.
I've been through that. Finally, I got tired of wondering.
The day I stopped wondering and got up the nerve to tell the guy I liked him, I met my boyfriend. We have been together for a year now. So, just believe in yourself. Anything is possible.

Answer 4

Ooooh love yourself before you expect others to love you!! Firstly start on self confidence then well, you know what'd make you feel better, go to a place that does like make-up ( which may be a bad idea if you have eczema on your face like me- there are creams I use though, really helps! Ask your doc) but you can always wear eyeshadow if you don't break out with that ( you dont really need make upto be pretty though! in films I'm always attracted to the most unattractive men because they are nice people in the film) well your hair, get them to sort it out, it'd boost your confidence and make you feel soooooo refreshed...believe me, just when you need it after feeling stressed about it all!!

But then flirt a little with this new confidence boost, tell your friends, FRIENDS ARE ANGELS!!! Believe me friends are there for this type of stuff! I don't think she'd tell because she's a girl...she has to honour the girl code!! But keep in mind who did she know first you or him? If you keep it bottled up you'll feel as if you want to scream it out sometimes! And if he does find out there's not much to lose! He'll get over it and it will go back to normal if he doesn't feel the same way...but if he does then thats a big favour Muna did for you right? But if you tell him on your own will then don't do it infront of anyone, its a bit nerve wrecking and embarrassing if he did reject you.

From what it sounds he likes you...and this girl Jessica may be around him alot but maybe he just sees her as a sisterly type of girl? Or maybe he trusts her to tell her secrets type of girl? Who knows...but I do know if your still in school not many relationships last for years and years...so you'll always have a chance!

I think If hes touching your hand....HELLOOOOO hes into you! Try checking to see if he looks into your eyes next time...if you can feel that connection...just little things you have to check for to see if guys like you.

1 - self confidence
2- try changing a few things ( but nothing thats against your moral ideas....nothing to change you as a person...dont go kidding yourself always be who you want to be and what you want to look like..never wear to much make up though it looks a little slu.tty) maybe get a bit of a change with your hair (if he notices he's into you as well!)
3- flirt a little, natural flirting (you probably do it anyway with your body language sub consciously.
4- Never fear because your friends are always there.
5- AND AGAIN BE YOURSELF!! If you change that's not the person he knows and loves right? Be yourself and get to know he more and your friendship will build...relationships have to be based on friendship after all!

Answer 5

be fun to be with when you around him. tell jokes sort ignor him but not really. do the sort this that people like to do you know have a laugh crack jokes chat talk to loads of his mates but don't like you after them or him. thne slowly get him to notice you a bit more and eventually him might decide to do something about it. there is a certain amount of luck involved with this but eventually you will have how you are prepared to go after 60% or 110% either all or nothing. Remember don't smoother but be there if he wants some one to talk to.

Answer 6

I think you should tell him. If you don't he will never know how you feel about and maybe he even feels the same way.

Answer 7

i DID read this but whats the question ?

Answer 8

What was all that about?