I met an amazing guy last night at church. He's everything I would want in a guy. He's charming, sweet, and a Christian. Is it wrong for me to be attracted to him? I can seriously see myself in a realtionship with this guy. What's my next move???? What do I do? What do I say?
2006-07-17 04:09:22 · 8 answers · asked by glory_falls 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as you are single there is nothing wrong with being attracted.Just get to know him first.Build a friendship based on the things you have in common.That is how you do it.
2006-07-17 04:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by STACK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm reading you right you just met this guy at church for the first time, or may be you have seen him before.
It is normal to like some one you just met, but keep in mind that you don't know any thing much about him. Is he married, divorced, have kids etc...sexual history etc.
We have to be prudent in relationships and not fall for the first good signs we see in a potential mate. Get to know this guy and find out from people in church that know him, all you can about him before you place him on some sort of pedestal and then to have your hopes and feelings hurt; when he don't measure up to what you expect from him.
It is wise to move slow and find out about him as the saying goes ( All that Glitters is not Gold ). Being a Christan how are you sure he is a christian ? So many people go to church and live a double life, of lying and cheating on their partner and so many other things. I'm not saying all people that go to church are like that, but we have to be prudent in relationships as best we can were our hearts and feelings are concern
2006-07-17 04:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by Premio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its natural to like someone with such characteristics, it would be wrong not to pursue this attraction. You might ask him if he is involved with any other organization within the Church and ask him to explain himself...or to cover all sides, ask him what he enjoys to do outside of Church and you'll be assured there is something you find interest in to suggest enjoying this with him..good luck.
2006-07-17 04:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it!!!! See if you can suggest doing something casual first.....so that you can get to know him a lot better....as long as you continue to be very friendly around him and talkative...I don't see why he wouldn't ask you out UNLESS he's shy....then it may have to be you that makes the first move...but so what....these days it's no big deal for a woman to ask a guy out......
Develop a friendship first so that you have something to base a real relationship on...
Good Luck!!!!!!!!
2006-07-17 04:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by Blue_Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not wrong to be human. Just chill and wait a day before calling him and see if you can't go out on a date. Just relax and don't act clingy. And everything will work out.
2006-07-17 04:13:41 · answer #5 · answered by Lite Boi Fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be kind to him, let him know your interested, ask if he would like to go see a good movie together or take a drive, something that you know the two of you would enjoy, Please make sure hes not married first , thats the first place to start
2006-07-17 04:18:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the flow and see where it carries you
2006-07-17 04:14:57 · answer #7 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong wit just askin him out
2006-07-17 04:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by w17js 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋