I like this guy and he likes me, I wanna go out with him but I'm not allowed to date till I'm sixteen. I'm thirteen turning fourteen this year. I think I'm mature enough to go out with him, but I'm afraid of getting in deep trouble by my parents. Should I just go out with him or should I wait? If I wait how should I tell him that I can't go out with him?
2006-07-17 04:05:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait.
2006-07-17 04:07:59 · answer #1 · answered by boo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait. If you go ahead and start dating him, the chances are good someone will eventually let slip that you are seeing him. Then you'll be in big trouble with your parents. They might even make you wait longer to start dating!
Just tell him the truth, your parents won't let you date til you are 16.
Another idea is to see if your parents will let you date in a group earlier - if you go out with another couple or go hang out with friends while you are dating/not be along with the guy. Maybe they'd be open to that?
2006-07-17 04:13:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait, and tell him you want to respect your parents wishes. If he's at all a proper guy, he'll accept your answer, and remain friends.
Anyways, it's better to be friends prior to starting a relationship, because it gives you plenty of time to get to know the person more, and realize if you really care for him as a friend or more, before you leap into a relationship.
16 is a perfect age to start dating. Gives you plenty of time between now and then, to figure out what you are really looking for.
2006-07-17 04:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it that people always want to do what they are forbidden to do? There's plenty of time in your life for what is ahead of you. Listen to your parents once you do one forbidden thing it makes it easier to do the next. Don't allow yourself to be caught in a trap by rebelling against what you're parents think is best for you. You just tell you're friend we're both young and there's plenty of time. If he can't accept that as an answer then he may not be exactly what you wanted anyway.
2006-07-17 04:13:59 · answer #4 · answered by Kewl__Kat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are wack. They think your going to do something bad. Maybe you should talk to them in private about you being a grown mature young lady. And you can make your own descions. Then see what happens. Ask them if they want to him and see if its ok. And if that don't work ask him to come over your house and just go to a park and walk around. That would be a date that could get past your parents.
2006-07-17 04:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by Lite Boi Fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart just wait. Just tell him if he cares about you he will respect that if not good you found out sooner than later and let him go. You parents are right. I know it seems so important know but next year it wont be. Just hang on those teen years are tough. Just try to make the right choices.
2006-07-17 04:11:20 · answer #6 · answered by D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait..do things right and listen to your parents...they are not there to make your life miserable or to try and stop you from being happy...if they said not until your 16 then be happy with that...what's the rush...if the boy won't wait 'till then so what there will be plenty more asking you out. Don't rush stay young as long as you can!!!
2006-07-17 04:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by girlygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till your're 16, tell him you just want to be friends. Tell him you're respecting your parents wishes. Hey, by the time you get 16, you'll probably like someone else.
2006-07-17 04:10:33 · answer #8 · answered by lovely girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons for your parents rule ,but I understand that you really like this person.Perhaps you can see him at a social function or school event that your parents will either be present at or find appropriate for you to see him at.Be friends first if it was ment to be he will be ok with that.
2006-07-17 04:11:01 · answer #9 · answered by STACK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go out with him if your parents say you can't date. Just hang out with him. You don't have to go somewhere alone to be on a date.
2006-07-17 04:09:45 · answer #10 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can go out with him just like friends.you may go out with group of friends inculding him.that is safe for you,also you can let your parents know you are not only go out with him.you think you are mature but you still need to wait for another 2 years.Maybe at that time you already have another boy who you like.good luck!
2006-07-17 04:13:54 · answer #11 · answered by fqreby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋