every1 talks about positions and toyz and juices flyin around....thats ****** up!!! i'm only 13 and i kno too much about sex.....i'm goin 2 wait 4 the right age but, i'm afraid 2 do "it" wit any1 because i dont want any1 touching my body...ever.
2006-07-17 03:56:49 · 31 answers · asked by Patty's Tat 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sorry about my cussin too!! hahaha!!
2006-07-17 04:02:04 · update #1
just wait untill you feel comfortable and ready to allow yourself to share the experience with another person..
2006-07-17 04:00:18 · answer #1 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm
Well sis!!
The reason you feel like that is because it's natures way of protecting you from getting pregnant-as your body is still changing and your personality is also and it would be bad for it to happen now-believe me it's pretty tough being pregnant-don't go there!!-YET, you need to be in a good enviroment.
Don't worry your feeling will change-I had fear of getting pregnant or getting diseases. I have to say I only have ever enjoyed it when I felt really close to someone and I knew them well, the better you know them the better!! Lots of guys just wanna sleep with you and thats it!!-don't bother if thats the case (when your old enough that is!) Be careful of them!!
Yes I suppose it is pretty disgusting! Willys are weird things!! But you get used to them-the right ones that is!!!! There are a lot of nasty dudes out there-be verrrry picky!
Hey -it is good, but you should be thinkin about other things that will really benefit you-don't forget you get out of life what you put in!! In more ways than one if you know what I mean.
Love Stella
2006-07-17 11:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by stellavision100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE WAIT! All that stuff grossed me out too. You don't need to have sex at 12, or 14 or 18, or any age. No matter how many of your friends are talking about it. Be a KID, play sports, join clubs, volunteer in the community, but you don't need to be thinking about sex at such a young age.
It's OK to be grossed out by it, when you get older, MUCH older, you will love someone and respect them, and it won't seem so gross. But sex is messy, and sex can be embarassing. When you are older you will be better able to understand and be OK with all of it.
I am proud of you, and treat your body like it is something special that others don't deserve to touch. When you are ready, you will let someone in, but don't do it before you are ready.
2006-07-17 11:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I waited until I was 18 to have sex. I thought it was disgusting for a while when I was younger. That is because I had a wild imagination.
When you find the right person (when you get a little older) it will be right. Your feelings are very normal. This is a sign that you are not ready.
2006-07-17 11:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by Kelli C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to really find out more about sex. You've heard the "dirt" about sex but it's really a beautiful experience with the right person and there is no kinkiness involved. Ignore what people say and don't watch movies that have a sex scenes. Ask people that are a lot more mature about sex questions instead of teenage idiots.
2006-07-17 11:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's the right attitude to have about sex at this age. the longer you stay away from sex the better for you,. there are diseases flying out there.
but you should know that the older you get, the greater the pressure will be for you to have sex. your hormones are going to play tricks on you at 15, 16 and then at 17 they go haywire and the urge for you to have sex will be greater than ever. if you safely go through 16 to18, you'll be alright. you sound very strong and sound monded, do not change that, that's what made me a 23 year old virgin, and yes, i'm proud of it.
2006-07-17 11:07:06 · answer #6 · answered by DaWoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, have you ever touched your own body? Don't take it as an offense. A guy friend once told me, if you never touch yourself, how are you going to know what you like? You have to be comfortable with yourself before you can have sex. Sex shows a little gross, but the feeling you exprience makes up for it. Don't have sex till you're emotionally ready. Be careful.
2006-07-17 11:09:35 · answer #7 · answered by AngelLuv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are way too young to entertain the thought of sex. You are smart to wait, and don't ever let anyone talk you into doing it. All this talk on the internet is just that, it's talk for shock value. It's not a true portrayal of what sex should be.
You will know when you are ready when the thought of it doesn't gross you out. Just be sure that the other person loves you as much as you love them. They need to prove they love you, not just say it. (Lots of guys will just say it to get you to do it.)
2006-07-17 11:05:09 · answer #8 · answered by Phrosty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is to research the topic of sex thoroughly. Research about sexually transmitted diseases, pregnancy, parenting, protection. You should ask a doctor or physician questions that you want to know about sex. You should really consider talking to your parents or whoever you live with about this issue. Never listen to what other people tell you. They could be lying. There are different sexual positions and there are toys that people use for sex, but that's something that you'll have to get into with your parents.
2006-07-17 11:05:02 · answer #9 · answered by Jan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 13 I'm thinking do your parents know you are on here? As far as sex goes, wait for as long as you can. As you get older your metabolism will change and so will your thoughts. You have a lot of time on your hands. You will know when the time is right.
2006-07-17 11:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by Trudi D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 is too young and it's quite sad in some ways that you know as much as you do. You should enjoy childhood and your adolescent years. All that you should know are the consequences of the acts and the impact that they will have on your entire life. Your choices are sound and when the time is right you'll see that your attitude will have changed. Have fun and enjoy your teen years.
2006-07-17 11:01:55 · answer #11 · answered by Phillip B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋