l'm seeing this guy for 8 months, my parents say if l want to see him l have to move out as they don't like him.
We cool it down but carry on seeing each other on the down low for 2 months.
We paln to spent the weekend together for his brothers wedding and l get a txt from him less then a week before to say l can't go with him after weeks of planning cos his met someone else.
He was still in touch with me every day for 2 weeks after he met her, but l found out he took her to his bros wedding at the weekend.
Will he come back begging or will he stay away?
2006-07-17 03:54:41 · 28 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does any body think what he did was wrong?
2006-07-17 04:11:37 · update #1
I would say he is gone, he didn't want the drama and was afraid he was going to get it with you. That isn't your fault and don't let it bother you. And if you stick with finding a guy that pleases your parents 100 percent you will never be happy. Find the guy you want and let the rest of the world deal with it
2006-07-17 03:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Put it all down to experience, get yourself looking fab and go sleep with as many men as you can find (safely of course).
Sounds bad but it works. After a couple of months of seeing how slim the pickings really are out there you will be more inclined to go after a man with good character and not just good looks/good job.
There is a lot to be said for a guy who's warm, considerate, honest and fun, even if he's not the best looking guy around. It's taken me 26 years to realise this. You need to experience the bad to really appreciate the good and the upside is that you will pick up certain skills along the way!
Forget this loser and go get yourself some useful experience my friend!
2006-07-17 11:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by poppyfields 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is under a lot of stress staying in your situation. I bet the other person has freedom to see him and hence he went with her to the wedding.
I would say, start paying attention to yourself, start going out again, you will meet someone else, just as he did. No one knows the future, who is to say he will or will not come back. In the meantime to help you get over him.. get involved. Try not to sit and worry too much (I know it is hard).
Tell yourself " THIS TOO SHALL PASS" Once there is life there is hope.
Love yourself first. And if your situation changes and you want him back, just make the best decision possible at the current time.
Much Love
2006-07-17 11:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by rizzio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop worrying over your ex boyfriend. Get a place of your own and stop bumming off mom and dad. Grow up and learn what life is all about. I dont know how old you are but I am guessing you have the mentality of a 13 year old. Get over it your ex boyfriend probably sees your bad attitude and how immature you really are.
2006-07-17 17:45:57 · answer #4 · answered by Sad Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want him to come back? That doesn't make any sense. Apparently he is tired of continuing a relationship with someone who he has to "sneak around with" and so he has started over with someone who he can see as he pleases. Move on, and get over it. And if you are 18 or older, it is time to get out on your own so you don't have to let Mom and Dad dictate who you can date!
2006-07-17 11:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by Okkieneko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody assumes your parent were right... perhaps he got bored with waiting for you to grow up and live your own life. You dont say how old you are. but if you are over 18 then its time for you to learn your own lessons, as hard as they may be.
Good luck in the future
2006-07-17 11:07:18 · answer #6 · answered by whatnoname? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you are hurting at the moment love and desparately looking for answers. What you need right now is to look after yourself and not to worry about him. You deserve so much better than all this!
2006-07-17 11:42:19 · answer #7 · answered by Sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that he will stay away b/c he will still seeing you when he met her. I believ that he met someone else b/c of the way that your parents were treating your relationship with him. Besides, you do not need him.
2006-07-17 10:57:41 · answer #8 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SORRY, BUT HE IS GONE, HE IS JUST INTERESTED IN SEEING DIFFERENT PEOPLE AND SO SHOULD YOU? DON'T STAY TOO HUNG UP ON THIS GUY, I DO GIVE HIM CREDIT BECAUSE HE WAS HONEST, MOST GUYS WOULD OF CHEATED, IF YOUR PARENTS DON'T LIKE HIM, DUMP HIM THEY HAVE YOUR BEST INTERESTS AT HEART, BESIDES WHEN YOU DO FIND SOMEONE THEY LIKE, IT WILL BE ALOT LESS STRESSFUL, NO NEED TO SNEAK OUT, GOOD LUCK
2006-07-17 11:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by JULIE V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not loyal to you, you have been sold out. Move on, leave him alone, not worth to give him a return. Your parents have more experience in judging this youngster.
2006-07-18 08:14:34 · answer #10 · answered by Sexyboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋