2006-07-17 03:52:46 · 14 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me:
i'm not very controlling
children likes my cooking
me and and my boyfriend we get along very well
2006-07-17 04:04:03 · update #1
We are selfish, lazy, self centered, love competition, want to be treated like a king and always are looking at the grass on the other side of the fence because we think it looks greener even though it isn't. Unless you whip us into shape and change us we will stay in this state forever.
2006-07-17 03:56:58 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not say this with the intention of being mean or ridiculous -- I actually enjoy spending time with men often more than I do with women, and my best friends are all men. But, after having many relationship issues, and learning alot from them as well as from similar stories from friends and relatives, I have learned that it is imperative that you remember that men are less mature than women by at least several years. This is true all the way until middle age, approximately (but some would argue that even then there is a discrepancy...)
Remember that something that seems obvious in an emotional or personal context to you might not make any sense to them, or they might be hypocritical in ways that seem so clear to you but that don't occur to them.
All that being said, men are great, and relationships are always worth the trouble. Even if they end badly.
2006-07-17 03:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man are generally more sensitive then woman. It very much depends on the character of that man you know. Some man has not character when ask them anything they will just say "ok la or anything or never mind". Man with character know what they want and sometime can be quite stubborn. You really can't clarify human being in general. Maybe a book with human character might help you understand more - check it out from the library.
2006-07-17 04:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah sure I can tell ya...
Men do NOT, I repeat, DO NOT think like women. So don't try to use a comparison of what you would do vs. what he would do.
With men, a lot of times, what comes up comes out. We don't intend to hurt we didn't think with our emotions.
A lot of men are very visual. They like to see sexy things.
Men have EGOS. Some times our egos get the best of us.
If you are not the cook and clean type, you need to find a man that is. Don't try to change a man into that. He will NOT change. You need to let him know that up front because he will surely try to change you and you WON'T change.
Men are a little less discriminant about their bodily functions than women generally are about theirs. Yes it's natural but some men take this to an unnatural extreme.
Good luck.
2006-07-17 04:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure women can control a man its all about how you play your cards. Find out his interest pretend to like them to. Dont act like hes the finest guy in the world his head will get to big. Let him teach you things. Make him wait for sex. Once you give it the chase and the honeymoon are over. Let him see how attractive you are to other men. Be sexy with him and dont be a pushover. Men get bored easily with a women they can control. Dont run to his every becon call. Make him work around your schedule. Dont make him try to hard though lol. Make sure his friends like you and get in good with his moms. Once hes hooked take it from there.
2006-07-17 04:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although we have our differences we are not to dissimilar to our female counterparts...we just have different ways of expressing ourselves than you do...one must recognize what their guys behavior is trying to convey to them...don't judge a book by its cover...a handsome man doesn't mean he is always a player nor does a small in stature guy mean he isn't big in moral judgment...know what you need in a man and judge him by his character...you may be very surprised to find out not all men are created equal and your search to find Mr. Right can lead to someone you would have never thought would have been so suited for you by the looks of them.
2006-07-17 04:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are good ones and bad ones. It is kind of luck of the draw. But if your persistent in the qualities that you want you will find one. Most men aren't very emotional but that dosen't mean they don't have feelings.
2006-07-17 03:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is all you need to know. Men like Beer, Meat, Sports (including War), and Sex, though not in that order. Know this and any man can be yours.
2006-07-17 03:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by anthonydavidpirtle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn up nude with beer and pizza and he will be happy. This is all you need to know about men.
2006-07-17 03:57:31 · answer #9 · answered by Trudi D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the most part, their easy mainenance. Feed them and they're happy
2006-07-17 03:56:45 · answer #10 · answered by Ann Chovie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋