2006-07-17 03:38:52 · 12 answers · asked by Joshua B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who ever does the asking should do the buying. My friends and I pay for each other all the time. If you're out with someone you know never picks up the bill, then go dutch.
2006-07-17 04:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by barelyliterate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, even if you're not on a date, you are obliged to pay for a girl's night even if you are not on a date. Its only polite of you to do so. And gentlemanly.
Even if you pay, you won't have anything to lose right? She'll see you as a gentleman. Now thats a plus point.
2006-07-17 03:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by Daisies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a few male friends who still insist on paying my way even though we are not dating. I always offer to pay my share or the whole bill at time ... but have yet been allowed to do that. It should never be expected that a male pay the bill just because he is a man ... always offer to pay your own way, and be gracious if he offers.
2006-07-17 03:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would I expect my best girl friend to pay for my drinks at a bar? No way - what obligation does she have to pay for me?!? None! It would be no different out w/ a guy who I wasn't dating.
2006-07-17 03:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by G_Elisabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that would be ignorant, of a girl, to think the guy is responsible if it isn't even a Date.!
2006-07-17 03:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by sqishieears 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a group going out, it is every person for them self. If you asked her to go somewhere, that is a date & you pay. If she asked you to go someone, it depends if you want to date her. If you do, pay - if not do not pay. Chilvary is not dead but it is defintely taking a nap.
2006-07-17 03:43:02 · answer #6 · answered by Wolfpacker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! If it's a date, sure, but just hanging out, I'll cover the whole check or at least my half.
2006-07-17 03:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but it is a nice gesture, especially if he would want a date in the future ;-)
2006-07-17 03:41:37 · answer #8 · answered by Suzanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it's not a date, she should pay her own way.
2006-07-17 03:41:43 · answer #9 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men pay bill for women but not in the u.s.
2006-07-17 03:42:28 · answer #10 · answered by firewall 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋