Just asking and should become a bad guy??
2006-07-17 03:38:16 · 13 answers · asked by nas88car300 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, I think the women who do like the "bad boys" are attracted to the unpredictability, the drama, the chaos, etc. Part of them probably enjoys the risk-taking they may do with the partner. In part, they also might see it as a challenge. "He will love me and he will change..." These same women will probably want a "nice guy" when they're in their 30's and looking for someone responsible to build a life with. (Sad, but true.) However, don't assume ALL women are like that. If you're going to bars, for instance, to meet women, you have to expect that some of the women there are going to be looking for "bad boys." If you go to a church function or join a book group, you will probably find women who want someone with the same morals or intelligence...
Should you become a bad guy? It depends on what you want. If you're looking to get laid, I have heard men argue that they "got it more" when they started treating women like crap. If you're looking for a relationship, don't do it. The relationship will start on a lie, and you'll end up with a woman who doesn't value the same things you do.
2006-07-17 03:46:45 · answer #1 · answered by Kiki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not that simple. I am a flower child from the 70's (I was 19 in 1970). I think it has more to do with the fact that women have many choices now and they didn't have those choices until the 70's. They don't have to get married, if they do they don't have to have children (I never did, thank God!) They can pursue any career they want, not just a teacher or a nurse. Many girls want, or end up in traveling jobs which do not really allow much time for a serious relationship. When I was growing up, no ones Mother worked. Not a single one of my Mom's friends worked! Everyone had children and sometimes more of them than they wanted because there was no reliable birth control until the 60's. Being a Mother was considered a full time job and rightfully so. Now women want to have it all, but it seems that for most of them career comes first. A lot of women don't even want a serious relationship when they have a child, which is not the best choice for the child and certainly makes life more difficult for the Mother. Often women let too many of the "nice guys" or "good husbands/fathers" pass because they are not ready for the serious life yet. I think women have become more like men in that respect and maybe they have complicated their own lives too much?
2016-03-26 21:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Janet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't become a bad guy. Be yourself. I think some girls always go for the bad guy because they like a challange. They need the excitement they bring to the relationship. They need something to cry about sometimes when their "bad boy" boyfriend is a total jerk. I know it's weird, but girls are weird I guess. It's just how it is sometimes, but not all girls like that sort of thing so don't worry. You'll find the right girl or she'll find you!!
2006-07-17 03:48:05 · answer #3 · answered by KittyluvR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it seems that way... And i feel the same way that "nice girls" finish last. But I guess it's not always true. Personally, my boyfriend is a very nice guy. He is honest, polite, careful with my feelings and others feelings. He's dependable and hardworking. His parents really raised him right. Those are the things I love about him the most. And I let him know everyday that I appreciate it. So, hang in there.
2006-07-17 03:43:41 · answer #4 · answered by Lyrical Goddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys don't always finish last. I'm not a fan of the bad boy image. That's just a way for high school punks to express themselves immaturely.
2006-07-17 03:43:24 · answer #5 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep being a good guy, at least I like good guys. Bad boys are cute but not good enough for a relationship. At least there is a good guy around, never change.
2006-07-17 03:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because bad boys know how to have fun and live on the wild side. Who wants to be with a boring stiff? Girls want someone with a sense of adventure and danger, not someone who will whimper and cower under duress. It's primal baby.
2006-07-17 03:41:16 · answer #7 · answered by Melarro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls like bad guys. Just don't be a push over. Women like assertive guys. Don't become a bad guy.
2006-07-17 03:42:32 · answer #8 · answered by sleeplessdreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all good guy finish last .But all guys have a bad side to them you just have to let it out but be yourself
2006-07-17 04:18:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls like bad boys.
Women like good guys.
Either way...be confident. Learn the rules of attraction. Be a challenge, and not someone showering girls with love and attention.
You can't change who you are anyway....so learn to give enough attention, but not too much.
2006-07-17 03:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋