i am 26 this year, everyone thinks that i am attached but i have no men to my name.. i think i am attractive enough but he just hasnt appear.. haha.. maybe he wouldnt appear anymore.. i've lost one great man before, due to my age i wasnt able to treasure him, and then now.. i think.. i am going to be single!!!!!!!!! forever!!!!!!!! sobz..
2006-07-17 03:35:44 · 25 answers · asked by gracecmx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your age is just the beginning of the "peak", you are very, very safe. I can assure you that plenty of time for you to meet or chose a boyfriend at this age. Please bear in mind, do not rush and put pressure in a relationship, take your time and don't do any silly things like giving kisses and sex easily. Treasure your body and preserve your virginity for your future husband.
2006-07-18 02:36:38 · answer #1 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, you are 26, so you are still young. However, marriage is geographical (at 26, in the South, most people are married ... while in New York City, most aren't). While you see your friends start shrugging off their "single" status, don't get disheartened. Just because most people are married doesnt mean there is something wrong with you, or something lacking. Just keep looking. Being single isn't a bad thing at all. In fact, think of all the relationship problems you are missing, and then think about changing diapers and waking up at 3 in the morning to soothe a 1 year old. No, being single is just fine.
2006-07-17 03:44:11 · answer #2 · answered by jabbamonkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont regret about your so called great man that you have lost. He is not that great after all cos he don't have you. He will regret one day, forget him don't even think about it.
I would rather be single if Mr Right is not here. You are still very young, let it be natural. If can't find a good man than rather be single for life. I have heard of too many unhappy married due to rush marriage. Just be happy at whatever status you are in.
2006-07-17 03:43:41 · answer #3 · answered by Trouble 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its your attitude to meeting new people in your life. Tell me how do you act when a guy in the club talks to you or on the street. If your attractive then you should have no problem meeting a guy because guys always try and talk to attractive girls each and everyday. Go to places where you can met new guys. And if that doesn't work then you'll just be another granny leaving all by herself in that house that no one ever really pays attention to. So get out and go out. If not with friends, by yourself. Love doesn't fall out of the sky...
2006-07-17 03:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by Lite Boi Fresh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My standard answer for lonliness:
1. You can feel lonely even in the middle of a party with a date.
2. Find something YOU like to do. Then find others that like the same thing. You are more likely to find someone compatible there.
2006-07-17 03:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by i wear one button suit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, dun be upset that you aren't attached. You have said that you are attractive enough, so I think someday one man will to tell you the 3 magic words. I think you may guess it already.
All the best to you in your future.
2006-07-17 03:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is because you are 26 and can't speak well about what your trying to explain here. Maybe in the real world you have problems talking to other people. You need to talk more clearly about what it is you want, then tell yourself that, then go get it.
2006-07-17 03:39:30 · answer #7 · answered by princess_darkfairy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that there is someone out there for you. I think timing is everything. When its your time, he will appear. Once you stop looking for him and focusing on being in a relationship, he will appear.
2006-07-17 03:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by chipmunk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be desperate, a good guy will come along. Go about ur daily life and you will randomly bump into mr. right. Good Luck!
2006-07-17 03:38:40 · answer #9 · answered by Jen S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you been hurt before and choose to stay single you appear to be attached due to your attitude and the way you project yourself.
2006-07-17 03:38:17 · answer #10 · answered by once_bitten 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋