I'v always wondered which one a guy would choose when faced with a scenario like this:
Suppose u were crazy about this girl who was confused about who to choose between you and another guy, who's also contesting for her affections.
If the battle between u 'guys' was getting out of hand..and she obviously wasnt happy about what was going on between the two of u.. almost to the point of making her sick.
Would u step aside or intensify ur fight to win her hand?
Which would u choose and why?
(Ladies, u can give ur opinions too, if u like)
2006-07-17 03:25:39 · 20 answers · asked by cookie_recipe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Win her Heart...Hand..come on, u know what i mean. LOL...in this context, they mean the same thing.
And am not asking for anyone's advise, please....just ur opinions. Thank u.
2006-07-17 03:47:22 · update #1
Win her Heart...Hand..come on, u know what i mean. LOL...in this context, they mean the same thing.
And am not asking for advise, please....just ur opinions. Thank u.
2006-07-17 03:47:56 · update #2
(LOL...gosh, my additional details came out twice. Why arent we able to edit stuff here...LOL)?
2006-07-17 03:53:44 · update #3
(ok guys, am sry to have to add this again. but do take a look @ Idearatherbefishins's answer. My 1st thot was to delete it, but on 2nds thot, i decided to leave it up so everyone can see what a "silly" Person he really is-hopefully, he too. I was just curious and wanted to know how men think- that's why i posted the question. I dont even mind the concept of his answer, but what's strange is that he's actually angry..wierder still cos the anger is directed @ me.
I cant help but wonder if he's ever fought battles to win the hearts of girls and lost every single time !
2006-07-17 04:21:41 · update #4
I would let her choose the other guy, but that's just me. If there is even a competition, then she's not the girl for me. I don't want a woman interested in others, or a girl who will always think about her decision...I want a girl who is like "wow...you are SO in a league of your own."
2006-07-17 03:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would never "fight" for a guy, so I see no reason why they should "fight" for a girl (there are way too many of us to chose from, fighting isn't necessary). If someone digs you, great...explore that...if there are 2 people that like you and that you like in return, then spend time with each of them until you know which one you "prefer"...usually there's not going to be equal spark/chemistry with more than one person at a time so there shouldn't be much of an issue deciding where the real (romantic-potential) attraction is...
If you have to 'fight' with someone else, to gain another person's affections, you should ask yourself if they are really worth it...chances are, probably not...
2006-07-17 03:31:34 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've always avoided girls like you who seem to enjoy guys fighting over them...and you do because if you didn't you wouldn't be writing about it. You seem to be not understanding something...as well as these boys....neither of them will win in the end because a person like you who cannot choose and is willing to pit two people against each other for her affection will always be that way. These boys don't have to win against each other ....they have to win you. You have made yourself a prize to be fought over and that if you think about it is really sad of you. In the end neither boy wins because a person like you will either repeat this once a guy does "win" or just the fact that you are not worth it because you think so much of yourself as to not think of others. It will always be about you you you in your life. Good luck with that!
2006-07-17 03:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the whole thing was making her sick, and I was a part of it, and if I cared for her? I would turn and tell her that I am sorry for all the hurt this has caused her, and tell her I want her, but I see how bad she feels, and I will not be a part of that anymore.....it is her to make the decision, and hope that she makes the right one for herself, and even for me, and then walk away..saddened, but content in that I made her feel a little better
2006-07-17 03:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course my encouragement would be a selfish one, but not just for myself but that I would want her to pick me because I cared the most about her...I am not stepping aside for anyone..no one deserves me more than you...you realize what your problem really is...you don't know what you want...your asking them for who can give the most...it shouldn't work that way...you may have your priorities mixed up...choose the one that wins your heart not your hand..good luck.
2006-07-17 03:33:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What??? Stand aside???? You must be joking!!
If I'm going to play the game, then I'm going to play untill I win or lose honourably. But I always play to win. Standing aside is not an option.
2006-07-17 06:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by Hotnbothered 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would always show affection to my boo hay that's just me. I wouldn't never fight over a girl that don't know what she wants . NOPE H*LL TO THE NAW . To many girls out there . hope they have a sence of direction.
2006-07-17 04:18:15 · answer #7 · answered by K-SOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 05:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well since iv won my love over in this sinerio ill answer.
she had a kid with some guy and i loved her he was a thief and jerk when she said she couldent choose eny more i was sad cause i loved her kid also so i steped down and then she realized thaT I DID so she wouldn,t loose her mind so she picked me since i am a very loveing and stable guy im 22 shes 18 we got 2 kids now and i rais her first like it was my first since she was born i love her and my kids so much i wouldent have it eny other way.
2006-07-17 03:32:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make sure she knew how much I cared. However, if she cannot make up her mind then maybe neither is the right one for her and both guys should move on.
2006-07-17 03:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋