my love and i are far away from each other,how can it work?
2006-07-17 02:47:15 · 17 answers · asked by Princess B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, u have the PC, web-cam, phone... that's all... but from my personal experience it's difficult. try to visit him every now and then, because who's away from the eye is away from the heart!
2006-07-17 02:51:43 · answer #1 · answered by o.s. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right after my husband and I began dating, we ended up literally oceans apart - he was stationed here in the U.S., I was stationed in Italy. We gave ourselves 6-months. If at the end of 6-months we didn't want to continue, we would split with no hard feelings. That was over 17-years ago. You just have to remember you both will continue to "grow" while apart and it's a lot harder to "grow" with someone away than it is when you are together. Keep communications open, write constantly, send little packages, email, call, whatever you both can do and save the big things (discussions) when you can be together. Keep it light and keep it simple. And make commitments to each other now - not later. It can and it will work if you boy want it to bad enough.
2006-07-17 10:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is harder then when you are local. I would say lot of im's, emails, and especially phone calls. Visit when you can also. When my husband and I were dating, he was like an hour away from me, (not a BIG distanct, I realize) but we'd talk on the phone almost every night and on weekends, we usually got to visit each other. There has been times when he fell asleep on the phone because he was so tired from working. I believe I even fell asleep once. But it was all good, I understood. Hope this helps.
2006-07-17 10:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i lived 400 miles away from each other while we were dating. we had long phone calls, and wrote long letters. we shared everything about our daily lives with each other and shared our dreams about a life together. if it is meant to be, it will work out. he would visit about once a month for a weekend. we did this for about a year. we've been married for 10.
2006-07-17 09:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by WVMagpie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time , spend some money, buy the passage and cover the distance. Or try to meditate and learn Astral flying, No costs, free romance at your favorite place.
2006-07-17 09:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by zahida367 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well me and my boyfriend sort of have a long distance relationship, b/c he lives in Michigan and I live in Ohio. We just e-mail each other back and forth everyday. I would NEVER cheat on him and I trust him not to cheat on me. It's all a matter of trust.
2006-07-17 10:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by wolfgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on both people. but usually behinds both scenes someone get's involved with someone else untill they decide who exactly they want to be with. and it depends on how long u are gonna be so far apart
2006-07-17 09:54:31 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nowadays there is no problem communicating with someone... internet, phone, fax...
U have multiple devices at hand to get in touch with the one you love..
So stop writing to us and start writing to him/ her!!
2006-07-17 09:52:56 · answer #8 · answered by japjongetje 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
plenty of money. Cheap airfare. Free VOIP. ...Least but not least trust and set goals for the relationship.
2006-07-17 09:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication!!!!!!
long distance relation last longer in end because ppl learn to communicate and therefore know each other better. they know what to talk about after sex
2006-07-17 09:54:41 · answer #10 · answered by randy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋