You have been with your girl for the past 8 months, u get on well, things between the 2 of you are going cool.
Her parents don't like u, they never have done.
They say if she wants to still see u, she has to move out, shes 19, not really earning enough to live alone and u have ur own place and are in ur 30's.
Do u end it with her, let her stay with you or try and talk to her parents.
Either way, would u be more then happy to end it? Or would you fight for her?
2006-07-17 02:27:32 · 18 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Sam... I've only got one piece of advice for you... don't do what I did: http://uk.answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AslJ8VnRC8V6gnyKAT580xQgBgx.?qid=20060708171649AALaAPH
2006-07-17 02:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Burnsie 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
the most critical question has to be... why don't her parents like me? However, in any event I would think extremely carefully before letting her move in with me, as I would be unsure whether that would be a positive move for her - it would break her family and the question of how she would develop her career would need to be addressed. Would, for example, she feel she did not have to contribute to the new domestic arrangement, and slack off from her work? In this case she would not develop as an individual. Also, if I was the girl i would be scared of what happens if I left home to move in with bf and then the relationship broke up. Bottom line has to be do both bf and gf think that the correct move is to live together? If not then there is little option but for the Girl to stay put and try and work her parents round to her point of view even if it means cooling the relationship for a while.
Added: It would have been helpful to have had the info you subsequently provided in a later question - that he's actually dumped you for someone else.... in such a case I think the likelihood of him moving you in or fighting for you is pretty minimal....kind of renders asking this question pointless, no?
2006-07-17 02:34:57 · answer #2 · answered by eriverpipe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fight for her if you love her, talk to the parents, they're the ones being unreasonable and controlling. If they think she's old enough to move out they should realise she's old enough to choose her own boyfriends and make her own mistakes just like everybody else. The best way the parents can help is to be supportive.
2006-07-17 02:34:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would first of all try and settle things with her perents !! because a relationship can be so much harder if you dont get on with one another. . If that didnt work then id ask myself how much i care for this person because after 8 months i should have a good idea. . So if i was ready to settle down id move her in !! BUT hate to tell you this but parents are usually right about us guyz!!
2006-07-17 06:42:13 · answer #4 · answered by scott s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man (not boy) is in his 30's and is dating a 19 y/o?? Why is this going on? Does this fool lack enough maturity to date girls hsi own age. The girl's parents don't like him because he's a mental loser. He's going for teenage girls because they are inexperienced and don't know that game. This needs to end.
2006-07-17 02:43:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sort of in the same situation. In fact, exactly in the same situation except her parents like me. However I love my gf enough to not make her a dishonest woman and will marry her. The girl should be smart ... men won't buy the cow when they get the milk for free. If this man loves her, he should marry her. Otherwise, she should just keep the distance.
2006-07-17 02:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by Keith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If her parents don't like you, there's a reason. Namely, the fact that you are a creepy *** thirty year old who can't get a woman his own age. You're going out with a baby, and if she moves in with you, it would likely be the biggest mistake of her life,
2006-07-17 02:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by Gabe R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason why the parents dont like you is cos you are 30 dating their teenage daughter! you are corrupting her innocence. the dude should find someone closer to his age! and the girl should lose him and have fun, shes is only young, too young to get serious and move in with a 30 year old!
2006-07-17 02:32:04 · answer #8 · answered by marcvialli 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur fighting a losing battle if ur parents dont like ur bloke
but i bet wot they have said is a double bluff
they wont really turf u out onto the streets will they
2006-07-17 02:39:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would fight for her everytime!
Living together would be either the making or breaking of your relationship, if things do not work out then you would always be able to move back in with your folks.
2006-07-17 02:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by matdevine21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fight 4 your love
2006-07-17 02:35:18 · answer #11 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋