IF U FALL IN LOVE..what shud u do...the case is tht u like a person whom u dont even know fully but ur intellectual level matches with him ....u like everything of his...and u also know tht this relation can never tranform into marriage...major reason 4 never meeting is tht he does not belong to your country...and horoscope readings say something else...shud u just try to not think abt him and pray and surrender or sacrifice ur feelings coz of destiny....huh another online relation....plz dont make fun and try answering in not 2 or three words....but i was thinking tht how wud u settle for someoneelse ( the person u r destined to marry -he may or may not b like him)..i mean how can u even think abt settling for a person lesser than his level...when u find something in life and its up to a great level u dont feel like settling 4 a lesser thing...make note the love has not been confessed as yet but u know tht u cant get a better person than him.hes more intellectual than u( me)
2006-07-17 02:10:54 · 9 answers · asked by stranger_tensed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well this happened to me just this morning, too! Shall share you my long story.
Well I was once in love with a poet, the literature-maniac guy. And had since gotten over him. And just now, I met another guy, about his age, someone whom I don't know, and was really interested in him. I also might be thinking, am I falling for him?
To think again, love at first sight can sometimes be real, and not unreal at all. Now, the matter is no longer about whether you're falling in love with him. The matter now is whether he has the same feelings as you.
And if he does, from there, I can see a tree of love growing. ;)
2006-07-17 02:20:10 · answer #1 · answered by nonentity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I totally understand falling intellectaully in lvoe with someone and I do believe in horoscope signs falling in lvoe and stuff. If you truly believe you need to read some of Linda Goodmans books. But hey there are plenty of intellectual men right here that are on your level or above it that are the right signs for you, please give love a chance. Don't tie down yourself to this man that is so far away. NEway, men from other countries usually have cultural differences that are too drastic to ours, culture shocks are very propensive! Good Luck and have a great day!
2006-07-17 09:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you have to know how much do you love him. Secondly horoscope, intellectual levels, caste, creed, country.....they all dont matter. if you love him for what he is and if he loves you for what you are, then that my friend is "unconditional love" which is pretty much rare these days. NOw if you want him for the time being, then go ahead, if you would want him for marraige/life and you know it wudnt happend then dont waste your time,try to move on, its gonna be very difficult but try focusing you attention to some thing else, like career, family, friends, etc. If he doesnt know how you feel, it is always good to talk it out with him. Let him know how you feel about him, so he could also let you know how he feels about the whole thing.
take care & best of Luck!!!
2006-07-17 09:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by quixotiksoul 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're contemplating the relationship before it even starts, it will never work. At the first sign of trouble, you will call it quits, because that's the type of person you are. Furthermore, why are you even reading horoscopes? It's just some fat guy sitting at a computer desk smoking something and coming up with lines that apply to just about everyone. You then take whatever he said and try to apply it to your life.
2006-07-17 09:15:18 · answer #4 · answered by FIONEX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do hope that this person doesn't study English Language or English Linguistics because I am quite sure that they would be horrified at your usage of text speak in an open forum question!
I am sorry, really, and I don't mean to poke fun but it is just something which really grates. I am unable to answer your question properly due to the fact the you lost me after a couple of lines due to the style in which you wrote it. Call me an old fuddy duddy if you like!
2006-07-17 09:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know the feeling but sometimes in life we just have to make do with what we have it may not be exactly what we wish for and it not be our dreams but it is better than nothing at all it seems to me that you are making all the sacrifices in this relationship are you sure that the other person feels the same way as you we tend to build people to more than what they really are and in the end we are left to pick up the peaces of whats left of our life before them stop being so obsessive I'm sure there are plenty of other guys who you might be able to connect with on the same level and come to love but if you truly believe that this relationship is what you want in your heart there's no stopping you
2006-07-17 09:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by playful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to what you're saying. My opinion, if you connect on an intellectual level, give it a shot. Never lower your intelligence for anyone, you have to be who you are. I'm a risk-taker and I don't let romances pass me by, if you're happy with him, don't give up. Love is a risk you have to be willing to take and suffer the consequences if need be. Good luck!
2006-07-17 09:19:24 · answer #7 · answered by AngelLuv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe in predestination, then dont do anything. If however you believe that your actions can actually make a difference, then you should express your intrest in this person. Sometimes people are worth fighting for, the time and energy you spend depends on you.
2006-07-17 09:15:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't finish reading your question due to the way you spell! It's annoying!
ur & u isn't verry intellectual.........
2006-07-17 09:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋