As a guy in my thirties there is something I need to know.How many partners should a person have.in there 30s?

Question

or in there 20s be it Male or Female whats acceptable for sex & age. I lost a girl over this

Answer 1

It's the rule of three. When you divide your number of conquests by the number of years you've been sexually active then you should have something around the number 3.

The older you get the lower this average should become - hopefully because your relationships are lasting longer.

Ignore this system if you are religious or ugly, you'll only feel bad!

Answer 2

A lot of my friends actually probably 4 - 10 years younger than you are in the 100's. I think they are stupid but they didn't care who/where they stuck as long as they got some. They would sometimes have 2 girls in the same day. I myself, male , 28 am at 4 girls. I had many opportunities before getting fat formerly being a handsome guy, I tried to do the right thing by keeping myself clean. I have never wore a condom though, so this was big in why I didn't mess around a bunch. In hindsight I don't know if I did the right thing, I kinda wish I would have just hit some girls that were sexy as hell, I only slept with girlriends. I dated some cute girls but none were hot like fire.

Answer 3

You know what that is a question very hard to answer b/c everyone is different, many people go by instinct and if thats the case they have probably been sexually with a zillion people and then there are more people with religious beliefs and more moral and so they have only been with a few or never been! But if someone leaves you b/c of your number they never cared for you in the beginning that should never be a reaosn for leaving somone. If you truly love somone you will accept them just the way they are, with kids, or not. With a horrid past or with disappointing habits, ect. Forget about that person and next time caution to the wind when selecting a mate!

Answer 4

You can count 1 for each year after 18. So if you are 30, then 12 partners is acceptable. But more than that gets a little shaky. Girls may have a little bit less, for they are more emotional about this kind of thing, except if they are $lut$.

Answer 5

I read that the average for a 30 year old was 6.

Answer 6

There is no 'should' about it.
Some people are in their thirties and have never had a sexual partner.
Some people are in their thirties and have only had one.
Some people are in their thirties and have had many.

It doesn't matter how many you've had or not had, and anyone that thinks it does is displaying a great deal of immaturity.

Answer 7

Well, you should never have several partners at one time, but the number of partners you have had in the past shouldn't matter much if a woman loves you. If she loves you, then she'll know that everything in your past is what made you who you are today.

Answer 8

As many as you can handle. If your single and want to play the field there should not be a limit on the number of partners you can have. I would however caution you about multiple partners due to the problems this can cause. Please choose one's partner carefully.

Answer 9

How many in total? I'm on number 3 and I don't intend on increasing that number.

Mid 20's

Answer 10

the number doesnt really matter as long as you know what your doing.
It really depends on what your looking for in life, I know people male/female who have been with 80-100 so they think and i have people who have only been with 2-3, they are happy with what they have done and can care less what people say or think about it..