Why can't men just tell you straight forward whether they like you or whether they are not interested in having a relationship with you? Why do they always have to play hard to get???
2006-07-17 01:27:08 · 9 answers · asked by CJV228 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
they do?!??
maybe they don't want a relationship, just want sex so have to calculate!
2006-07-17 01:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by nu comer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are from Mars, haven't you figured that out by now? in any case men always complaining why women are so difficult to understand, so it works both ways. Maybe its just that your friend/partner just doesn't no exactly how he feels and that he thinks its better not to say anything at this stage in case of either 1) hurting your feelings, 2) loosing a friend. Give him some time then you should no for sure if he is interested or not.
2006-07-17 08:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by mermaiden_4_ever 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that maybe we are the ones that complicate it, they assume that we understand all of the 'he's just not that into you' signals. If you think about it, how many times have you made excuses for someone in your head instead of just saying, he didn't call, maybe I read into it deeper than I should have.
Sorry if that sounds condescending, I've just been through something where the guy strung me along a little, I just I'm into the contimplative stage.
2006-07-17 08:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We just want to have sex with you. But we don't have the balls or paitence to say it. What do I mean by paitence? Well that's easy; we don't last long playing games and normally get frustrated easily. Then we just go find a less attractive girl who's easy and get our rocks off.
2006-07-17 08:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess thats how men are just complicated but you kow thats why its fun going after that guy and they might think that us girls are complicated as well but their just that way cuz they think they have to be this hars to get guy and trust me i know my brother is theat way all the time and i asked him the same question he said thats how they opperatet and they just cant see to help them self but it would be easy if they just told you right their and then if they like you or not it would go on a little smoother
2006-07-17 08:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by Tsitsi M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women feel uneasy about the direct approach. They rather be told in subtle ways.
2006-07-17 08:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by WC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your meeting the wrong type of guy, eventually you'll meet the one that doesnt play games, but it goes both ways, some woman play the same games.
2006-07-17 08:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They can't explain there feelings......they just afraid to be hurt....because in all men some where there is a small kid hiding who don't want to grow up.......Believe me it's TRUE
2006-07-17 08:33:25 · answer #8 · answered by Ashish M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
us it's the women that like playing hard to get
2006-07-17 08:29:01 · answer #9 · answered by chaopred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋