I've never met my dad and I'm 17 now...I once talked to him on the phone but I was so little that I still thought he'd come back...The last we heard was that he was in Guam or somewhere...(My parents are not divorced). I still hope I'll see him someday just to have some memories because it's hard this way. All the sites I've visited require money...Are there any which don't ? What would you do if you were me?
2006-07-17 01:21:35 · 11 answers · asked by Clarietty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Before you tell me:he's my dad and I don't want to pay anything to find him, just to tell you that I can't afford it!
2006-07-17 01:25:46 · update #1
I live in Croatia...Guam is not that near...
2006-07-17 01:31:39 · update #2
is your father in the military? are you sure your mother does not know where he is? is she protecting you( she may think she has too)
if he is in the military, you should be able to contact the local branch ie:army,navy,airforce-marines etc. and ask them to help you-i would think that you could also contact the american embassy for guam, and they may be able to contact him for you-
all else fails? call maury povich-he seems to have a huge sucsess rate-
maurypovichshow.com
2006-07-17 01:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by gemini~~~marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would (if i love hm more than myself)hv made posters at my home and hv pasted a photo with it . And then i would fax it to the local police station. yes! I would hv booked a casual report about him. I am 18 years old. I love my dad very much. well he did the same thing when i ran away from my house one afternoon. U know what , still he sometimes says that every couple should have a son like me!!hahahahaha . My name is Akshay. i stay at home usually n i need a pen friend. (akshay_bhcasio@yahoo.com)
2006-07-17 08:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by BrainCracker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is your mom willing to help? You could try the American Embassy in Guam. Locate them on the web and start emailing.
2006-07-17 08:24:57 · answer #3 · answered by blondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be costly to track down a family member, I had a friend who was looking for a person and came to the same road block, he ended up doing a GOOGLE search for the guy and found him on myspace! Amazing considering how popular the internet is that they haven't came up with free internet investigations. But investigations do take time and people to help try to find other people. Try a google search for him.
2006-07-17 08:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by cubsfreak2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Red Cross
2006-07-17 08:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by mu_sa_kossan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the US embassy in Zagreb! If your father is Croatian citizen, he probably needs a visa for Guam, which he has presumably asked for in Zagreb.
2006-07-18 08:38:51 · answer #6 · answered by Paul Atreides 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how desperate you are...You could go on one of these talk shows and not pay a dime and get a free trip.
I myself do not have a relationship with my dad. I've tried it's been unsuccessful and I personally do just fine without him. If you feel he will enrich your life then go for it...However be forewarned that he may not be emotionally available...There are reasons why he hasn't been in your life. You are going to have to accept his faults. Our parents as much as we'd like to think of them as being perfect are flawed individuals just like everyone else.
2006-07-17 08:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by bklyngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait you will find your dad and if not ask mary he help find your dad and if you dont find your dad you'll get to see him in heaven one day and you will be togeter wit him and he will have a good reason why he was never around but then again dont worrie about it move on wit your life if he love you he would find you not the other way around
2006-07-17 08:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by Tsitsi M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can check in immigration recorded in GUAM, at there you can check his phone record and his identity that he ever get there,,,,,good luck,,,,I am wishing you can find your dad earlier
2006-07-17 08:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by Dark Angel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yellowpages.com
2006-07-17 08:25:11 · answer #10 · answered by I-C-U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋