i'm with this guy that i used to b good friends with...but now i regret getting in with him cuz i dont like him that way...wat should i do..i dont want to hurt his feelings!!!
2006-07-17 01:11:18 · 18 answers · asked by ocean*angel21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best thing to do is just tell the truth just tell him i thought i liked u more then friends but now i realized that i dont so can we just go back to being friends he should understand that u just want to go back to the way it was but dont lie to him about it just be honest about it cuz honesty is the key in a friendship and realationship
2006-07-17 01:17:25 · answer #1 · answered by jenna s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Newsflash.....you don't want him so I can guarantee his feelings will be hurt somewhere down the line. Concentrate on damage limitation- get him to dump you! For further advice see the film 'How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days' and take notes.
2006-07-17 09:14:10 · answer #2 · answered by poppyfields 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him honestly that you dont want to loose is friendship and that you feel if the relationship were to carry on and you split up after a long time you feel he wouldnt be able to be your friend so you would rather end it now and keep your friendship as friends last forever partners come and go
2006-07-17 08:22:19 · answer #3 · answered by Lee2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two decided to cross the line and for you its not working out. You need to sit him down and be honest with him. Hopefully; you may be able to salvage a friendship...but don't expect it to be the same friendship it was before you got together.
2006-07-17 08:16:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thimg is to tell him the truth and really discuss each other feelings. Who knows he may feel the same way.
2006-07-17 08:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by tasgilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him " I dont want to hurt your feeling, but I dont love you ".
2006-07-17 08:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i've been there done that. sometimes you have to hurt guys feelings, it's good for them, but you need to talk to him about it, and who knows he prob. feels the same way. i know me and my bestfriend did he just didn't want to say nothing cuz he didn'y want to hurt me. well i hope everything goes okay.
2006-07-17 08:22:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you hurt his feelings more when you are not honest with him so just tell him how you feel and see what turns out but sometimes the truth hurts but he will heal soon
2006-07-17 08:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by EastSideMobster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you gotten intimate with him and if so why so soon......curiosity got the better of you ..and if you haven't gotten intimate just tell him straight. But if you have been intimate let him down gently, if he is a man he will accept what has happened and go on with life.
2006-07-17 08:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by slowseven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell him you don't feel that way about him. It is better to be upfront then walking around not saying anything and feeling crap about it.
2006-07-17 08:16:36 · answer #10 · answered by v_stroke_28 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋