Think about this seriously please. She is not going to invite you to join them in a steamy 3sum. She wants to have you AND her girlfriend in her life, but seperately.
Would you be ok with it because you don't see a woman as a threat? Or would you be jealous and hurt, just as you would be if it was a guy?
2006-07-17 01:06:29 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mainly the situation is totally weird!!
Well its fine with me if she loves me and cares me
i cant be jealous or hurt as she is not cheating on me with another man
2006-07-17 01:11:40 · answer #1 · answered by Prakash 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that if she wants both that she should at least try a 3sum. If she absolutely won't go for that,and won't give up the girl,or at least let you watch,Kick her to the curb. I have a similar question on here look it up and give me your feedback.
2006-07-17 01:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by jaguaramaria 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As a temporary gf I might not get hurt, but if I think her as wife, I would abruptly brake the relation!
Sorry, but I can't tolerate in family principles and ethics I have been brought up with!
2006-07-19 04:41:00 · answer #3 · answered by soubassakis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I shouldn't be answering this question coz I am a girl but heck...here it goes
If I was a guy I would still be hurt....I mean, even as a girl, imagine if my boyfriend had a boyfriend by the side...who give him pleasure...whom he loves too...nah I can't handle it lol
If I am with someone....(whether boy or girl)....that person will have to be satisfied with me only ;)
2006-07-17 01:11:34 · answer #4 · answered by anesziere 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no. If she just wanted it for the sex, and let you join in, it'd be fine as long as she respected your wishes. What you talk about is just a relationship on the side, and the same as her being with another guy.
2006-07-17 01:10:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mikkel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well if she was open to the idea of her having a girlfriend AND keeping the husband then if I was the husband I would make the deal that if she could have a girlfriend then so could I.
2006-07-17 01:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by snuffy_muffy_eater 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends... think about it, if the girl is seeing the other girl more than she is her boyfriend, then it gets aggrivating and complicated, but if the girl is more on the side than the guy is then it shouldnt be as bad. It also depends on who you had first in the "grouped" relationship.
2006-07-17 01:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by surf_jayme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd leave the relationship. It's supposed to be well, in this case, a one person kinda relationship, guy or girl. In short, I'm not up for sharing.
2006-07-17 01:10:43 · answer #8 · answered by thebewast 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would treat the situation the same as if she had another boyfriend on the side I did not know about.
In short, she would be history.
2006-07-17 01:11:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just leave her as it is for a while and see if her love towards me changes then its good bye or else i'll continue with her till she behaves differently.
Rgds/siivan
2006-07-17 01:25:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋