You have been with your girl for the past 8 months, u get on well, things between the 2 of you are going cool.
Her parents don't like u, they never have done.
They say if she wants to still see u, she has to move out, shes 19, not really earning enough to live alone and u have ur own place and are in ur 30's.
Do u end it with her, let her stay with you or try and talk to her parents.
Either way, would u be more then happy to end it? Or would you fight for her?
2006-07-17 00:52:31 · 14 answers · asked by London girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ls 8 months to soon t obe putting up a fight for someone?
2006-07-17 00:54:27 · update #1
No offence to the first answer, but l want to know what you would do, not what you think, he was 12 years older then me.
2006-07-17 00:57:13 · update #2
If i was your boyfriend I would talk to your parents to see what their problem is with me and try to sort things out.If that fails and he loves you then nothing should stop you being together,living together would be a big risk but unless you try you'll never find out if it will work.If you were my girlfriend and i loved you I'd fight tooth and nail for you........but thats just me!
2006-07-17 01:07:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am a father of 3 teenage girls, 15/17 and 19 yo, and I would be out for blood if any guy over the age of ,say 25, hit on my eldest daughter.You are lucky that they only 'dislike him'
You do have a right to be happy but I generally dont see why you cant find a decent guy more in your age group.
So, to answer your question, I would end it, this kinda thing can tear a family apart and I couldn't have that on my mind 24/7.
2006-07-17 01:07:06 · answer #2 · answered by India 55 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get someone your own age, it'll only end up in tears.
About 7 years ago I was in love and friends with a girl the same age as myself, the problem was she was with a man 28 years older than her, he was a Bas**d to her but she stuck up for him.
One day she and her block moved away and I Don't know what has become of her.
Not one day goes passed that I don't think about her.
2006-07-17 00:59:52 · answer #3 · answered by Clint 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... i can understand why your parents dont like him, HE'S 30!!!!! Your 19, doesnt exactly match there hun. You both need to be on a level at which your both financially stable and need to be at the same maturity, the HUGE age gap is whats getting you in the situation.
2006-07-17 00:56:03 · answer #4 · answered by surf_jayme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age dosent matter. Im a gurl and i think if the guy truely loves you, he'll take the risk of either talking to your parents or find a gud way of making them like him.
If he ends it then he never wanted soemthing serious, if he fights for her, he loves her.
2006-07-17 01:01:40 · answer #5 · answered by Incredible! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a 38 year old male going out with a 25 year old girl ,her parents dont like me ,i think because they think im not good enough for her ,but at the end of the day if theres good vibes with u and your partner u should maybe move in with him ,your parents have to come second , its your life we're talking about ,saying to move out i find a bit harsh
2006-07-17 01:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's to old and 8 moths to short. Sometimes parent are incredibly wrong but most of the time they know what they are talking about
2006-07-17 00:58:52 · answer #7 · answered by muffin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been in the same situation but luckly she came and lived with me, we both have slept a few nights rough because we had know where to go. If you have no other place to go with I would split up
2006-07-17 00:57:39 · answer #8 · answered by Blade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question is quite hard to answer. But I say my opinion. If I was that guy, first of all I would evaluate her love ......whatelse can she do for me thenafter I would do necessary things to be done?
2006-07-17 01:09:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The age difference is a big factor, but it works for some people. If its real, he should battle for her!
2006-07-17 00:57:27 · answer #10 · answered by theunderwaterdog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋