i meet someone whom ive known for a long time an we are dating. but the thing is he's got a girlfriend but even that he still spends time with me and sends nice texts, but last night he said something to me on the phone that now i dont know what to do, he said i love you before he hung up the phone. before that we had a fight cause he told me that i have a child, which of course i dont. what do i do now that he told me that he loves me. i had a plan to go and work overseas, but now im stuck here, cause ive fallen for him, what do i do? what do i do? please help
2006-07-16 22:49:16 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has a girlfriend, stop there. Move on.
Also, stop drinking and smoking it's bad for your health and is a big turn off for guys. Kissing a girl who smokes is like kissing an ashtray. You don't wanna be nobodies ashtray!
2006-07-16 22:53:39 · answer #1 · answered by jumpingrightin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are not stuck anywhere. If you want to go overseas to work, GO do it or you will regret not doing it. If he is telling you that he loves you and he has a current girlfriend dont go there. Could be that he might change girlfriends more often than he changes his underwear. Also he is being a bit sneaky by getting things set up with you then perhaps leaving his present girlfriend or perhaps slipping back every now and again. If he loves you then he will give you the opportunity to go overseas to work and be around when you return.
2006-07-16 23:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by AussiePete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO! This guy is liven the best of both worlds right now . Why would you even get involve with some one who got someone that should show you what kind of man he is .How long will it be before you become the other woman.Your just headed for a bigger headache.(opportunity awaits on the other side there's some one better & probably going through the same thing. think about it for real later
2006-07-17 05:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by K-SOLO 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first mistake about this all is that he already has a girlfriend. Leave him and move on.
Dont date him if you're going overseas because long distance relationships dont work.
Once the two above are clear and sorted out, date him otherwise move on.
2006-07-16 22:57:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend and he still spends time with you and sends text messages that means he is flirting with you and he is cheating on his girlfriend.
You have to go and pursue your career overseas and see if he still loves you. Or else you can make the plans still and let him commit to it. It also might be that he said he love you cos he came to know that you are going overseas and he does not want you to go as he likes spending time with you.
Smile always
2006-07-16 22:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by Smile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweet, I know a friend of mine who had a similar story, but which ended up in to a wedding a child than a divorce. We don't really get to know our friends as lovers, we are just different when it comes to loving someone in my opinion I think your friend doesn't want you to leave him, because sure that he has feelings for you, but is it worth breaking your plans??????? If I were you I wouldn't think twice go on with your life, try suggesting a long distance relationship if you've fallen for him, and if he really loves you you'll get to know when he follows you! Good luck Sweet!
2006-07-16 22:58:29 · answer #6 · answered by Juice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girlfriend that is reason enough for you to kick that guy to the curve... Go overseas- fall your dreams! Man come and go but an opportunity to go study overseas is a once of opportunity! One thing I have learnt during my 21years on this earth is that everything has its time and place... You will find a guy that will love you & you alone... Let that guy go!
2006-07-16 23:05:07 · answer #7 · answered by tinkerbell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bump all that! take the job and leave the man behind. you said he already gotta a girl. hes probably using you for the booty. if he isnt your husband or you are really in love with him that you know that you two will be together, than there is no need to sacrifice your future for a man. take your job and be happy. you might meet someone else.
2006-07-16 22:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart love. It is hard to find love nowadays. Ask him if he is going to leave his GF if he say's don't know we have a child then move on you do not need the heart ache. You sound to be a lovely lady so take care
2006-07-16 22:58:53 · answer #9 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has tried to make up after the fight.
so make up and have a good time.
2006-07-16 22:59:21 · answer #10 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋