Why do I suck with the ladies? I am kinda good lookin' except I look five years younger than I should. I have a kinda cool car and plenty of personality... so why do I suck so much?...
2006-07-16 22:30:30 · 22 answers · asked by ddiscostu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm actually good lookin' (in the sense that i'm not deformed, or n e thang like that) Girls do give me the look and kinda flirt but i just don't have it in me to go beyond that.
2006-07-18 22:08:54 · update #1
it's all in ur head!
2006-07-16 22:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by chiefbrino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe try looking for ladies in a different place. Take a class at a local college, ask friends to set you up, or try an online dating service where they match you based on what kind of person your looking for, hobbies etc. Good luck, you'll meet the right one yet. As far as looking five years younger, in a few years you will love that! lol
2006-07-17 05:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try watching the movie Hitch starring Will Smith. Eventhough the movie is fictional, a many parts of it is true. This movie is about a love doctor (Will Smith) that helps guys get girls. and some other stuff too. Here a plot summary for you:
Alex "Hitch" Hitchens (played by Will Smith) is a professional "date doctor", who coaches other men in the art of wooing women.
While coaching one of his clients, Albert (played by Kevin James), who is smitten with celebrity Allegra Cole (played by Amber Valletta), Hitch finds himself falling for Sara (played by Eva Mendes), a gossip columnist who is following Allegra around, looking for a scoop. However, where Albert and Allegra's relationship continues to progress, Hitch finds that none of his tried and tested methods are working on himself, despite being a master of the art. In the end Albert and Allegra get married and celebrate their marriage with Hitch and Sara back together again.
2006-07-17 05:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by foreverasking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see, you are wrapped up in your looks, your possessions, and you believe quantity is more important than quality (personality). Adds up to be unintelligent and shallow. Does that sound like you?
OK, now start working on changing these things.
Stop looking in the mirror.
Take the bus.
Most importantly,instead of talking...LISTEN to the girl. If you catch yourself planning how to answer then you aren't listening...try again.
You'll see the difference immediately.
2006-07-17 05:37:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good look doesn't mean you can always have a good relationship with women. It takes a lot more than a good look. Maybe you can start to think what went wront with these women and learn from your bad experiences. I'm sure you can learn things from them and improve your dating skill at the same time. Good luck!
2006-07-17 05:34:44 · answer #5 · answered by CRT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You suck because you believe you suck. To do good with the ladies you have to pump yourself up, be a little arrogant.
2006-07-17 05:34:37 · answer #6 · answered by gymfreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then not to be suck to ladies anymore, true love is nothing to do with the nice looking and nice car, is whether do you meet the right person.
2006-07-17 05:34:05 · answer #7 · answered by loveable_chic19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you look like? What's kind-of good looking....are you deformed or something?? Send a picture, I can sum it up for you! HTH
2006-07-17 05:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by confused24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your a softy for the ladys or your just so kind hearted id luv sum 1 like you its best tobe like that than rude to us ladys
2006-07-17 05:37:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you have no confidence.... stand tall, walk and dont look at the ground and think your a awesome wonderful person that can make women happy and then you'll see that you dont "suck" anymore
2006-07-17 05:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by princessashley2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You try to hard, you're going after the wrong girls, you say the wrong things to try to get girls
2006-07-17 05:31:54 · answer #11 · answered by double v 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋