I am a 20 year old single male guy. I live on my own go to college and have a job I been at for over 3 years. I go out now and than. It with relatives or people I know. It like everybody my age are dating drinking and having sex. I don't drink, haven't had a girfriend and haven't had sex. I found a girl I love so deeply. She only sees the two of us as friends though. I was mad, and saw it as more than just friends. I can't get over her completely though.
What do I do though so I can find a girl to be with. I swear I will never find that one for me in life. I want sex so badly. I just want to try it once. It hard to find people like me choosing to work go to school and not drinking alcohol or doing drugs of some kind. What can or do I need to do to get them to fit in with me. I'll go out but it like they forget that I even there. I just get left alone like the lone stranger. I also not a big fan of going places and meeting people I don't know. I need some help and pointers badly.
2006-07-16 22:21:19 · 14 answers · asked by jacoboctober11 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't waste any more precious time, Get straight down to your nearest brothel and indulge your wildest fantasy.
Sure it might cost you, but let me tell you, all women will cost you in the long run.
2006-07-16 22:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by funeehaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sounds like you only want to have sex and a girlfriend because everybody at your age is doing it. You will soon find somebody who you will love and who will love you in return. You don't have to have a girlfriend or have sex. If you really want to though, then start making new friends but looking for people who have the same interests as you and who don't take drugs or drink. There are lots of people out there like yourself too. Relax and do what you enjoy most and don't worry about the small things in life!
2006-07-16 22:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to drink to fit in with other college students like yourself. All you gotta do is put yourself out there and just make an effort to go out to places and talk to people. It might be kind of scary being around people you dont know, but that is the only way you will make friends and get better at being in social situations.
If you have some friends now, try getting them to introduce you to some of their other friends you dont know.
Anywho, good luck with everything
2006-07-16 22:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by scrazygirl25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a bruthel isnt realy a place if you want some one to hang out with alll the time.just like the first answer you can meet someone at church or try to go out on your own without the pipo you know and try to talk to some girls,if they are not nice dont worry not all of us could be friendly.
join a youth club in your neighborhood,or at your college or sporting
or just here on the net you can ask any one who wants a friend and pipo will respond,just have some confidence in your self and everything will go well
2006-07-16 22:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by nono 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The key is to be more social (going out with people you just met). Put yourself out there, talk to strangers (despite what people may say about that talking to stangers is a good thing). Don't rush it though, it'll happen when it happens. Anyway this reminds me of the movie 40 year old virgin (but that a different story) :).
2006-07-16 22:30:57 · answer #5 · answered by gymfreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't like going places & meeting people you don't know, than how do u expect to find a woman to have sex with? If you don't go anywhere, might as well just give up man!
2006-07-16 22:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by confused24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey your in college join some of the clubs, i have a 20 year old and he meets a lot of great people in the clubs he belongs to.
2006-07-16 22:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y are you trying so hard to get people to fit in with you? try getting friends who have like the same values as you
2006-07-16 22:30:37 · answer #8 · answered by Babyblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have made a start.
if you don't like the social venues where you are try internet dating. it's nice to chat on-line with women and it will help you improve your conversation skills.
you could try chatting at www.spinchat.com (free)
and chatting for romance at www.hotornot.com ($6 / month)
2006-07-16 22:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if ur m8s realli r m8s they would respect u and i shouldnt wanna rush in2 sex cuz its kwl u should do it cuz u wanna dont do it wiv some1 u dont love and tell this gal how u feel tell her u think shes special and u deeply like her if she doesnt take u seriously u should think again bbe xx gud luk xx
2006-07-16 22:26:39 · answer #10 · answered by X-Wel$h--$wAn$ea--Chik-X 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋