This is a real question im a Big guy 6ft and 54 inch shoulders span and i am stocky as hell!!?

Question

How can i make myself attractive to women not plastic surg or the usual loose weight i am quite happy as i am.
what do women find attractive and how can i improve?

Answer 1

Just be yourself...

Girls can be more attracted to humour or self-confidence over looks... Use that... ;)

Answer 2

Ok, where do we need to start? Need some nice clothes? A good (and I mean a good) hair cut. Keep you nails neatly manicured, women look at a man's hands quite often! Be "big and gentle" and when you do get a date, be courteous, hold her chair, and the door (if you beat her to it!) and smile a lot. Do you have a nice smile? Woman like a man with confidence, buy and wear suits to some of the nicer pick up places near you. You know there's something about a well-dressed man! They make special clothes for big and tall men, so that you can look well-groomed all the time, when you go out do you "clean up well"?

Look, I would say good personality, good smile (meaning if you are fat with bad teeth, you may as well go back to the biker bar, get a nice hog and some BIG azz blk tee shirts and you may still be in "bidness" as long as you are willing to add a nice biotch seat with a sissy bar to your hog)...There's women, then there's ladies, you know what I am saying?

What type of woman have you been trying to focus your wiles on? Maybe you need to change the type of woman that you try to attract. Big beautiful ladies need love too! So, don't be a "Shallow Hal". I am NOT saying take whatever you can get, but if you need dental work, you may come out cheaper, (though not better) if you go with the Harley!

I am glad you are on the other side of the computer, because you are almost wider than I am tall! Ok, get your teeth cleaned and fixed, get some nice clothes, nice easy to maintain hair, learn table manners that are better than average, if you perspire a lot, shower and use plenty of deodorant (OFTEN). Learn to listen, without drifting off because even if it sounds lame, if we are saying it, we want you to hear it! Let's see is there anything besides your bulk that may make you less of a hunk? If there is, then fix it and try a new hunting ground!

Good luck, I do hope something I said may have helped, sorry for the jokes. I am glad you are happy with your "body image", that's cool, now all you have to do is find a lady who is happy with your body image too! So dress it up a bit, and try a different type of woman, I mean who wants to date someone who picks at their food? Oh and NEVER ask a girl "are you going to eat that" if she is not eating her dinner fast enough, just make sure you order enough to be content to keep your fork busy on your own plate. Find a lady who enjoys eating and cooking with you! Don't try for the gals that look anorexic. Find a woman who can fry up the bacon and put it on the table after you bring it home!

Have fun!

Answer 3

you have answerd your own qeustion my freind . since you are happy in who you are, you just wait must until the right lady comes around . but here are a few tips to attract the right lady , if you are not a spiffy dresser try changing your ward robe by dressing not like a slob most big guys only wear jeans or athletic type clothing because it is hard to find clothes to fit at regular stores ,try finding a big mans store in your area or go on line to have your clothes shipped to you . if you have a local tailor in your area try having your clothes tailor made , the ladies will notice the differance and your date card would be overbooked.just remember that the bird with the prettiest tale feather gets all the birds so change your feathers

Answer 4

Smart fashionable clothes - Ironed and clean
Nice smart clean shoes
Clean finger nails
Smart fashionable hair style
Well mannered and polite
Good sense of humour
I always go for someone who makes me laugh
Someone who's good in bed
Kind and considerate
I could go on for ever but I guess you get the idea, keep up to date with fashion and take care of yourself.

Answer 5

There's no way your shoulders span 4' 6".(54")Mabey in circumference.You'd have to turn sideways to go through a damn door.(36" average)Well unless you're one of those bed ridden people that can't wipe they're own ***.

Answer 6

Be yourself - the most attractive feature comes from within - you!
You really need to get some self confidence! I bet you are very attractive!

Good luck

Answer 7

if your happy with yourself then that's what woman will find attractive. for me it's smiles that seal the deal but everyone is different don't go changing yourself unless it's for you and you really want to there is someone for everyone and they often come along when you least expect it so stop worrying about and enjoy yourself

Answer 8

genuine people - just be yourself. most womenarent so shallow that the'd only go for someone based on how they look.
you dont need surgery, you need confidence.
go out on a few dates, get to learn how to talk to a woman comfortably. a little bit of chivalry goes along way too unless you're after a one night stand of course!

Answer 9

Im 6ft.Height and weight are unimportant.my partner is chunky,with a bit of a man boobs thing going on.he is no oil painting.I am very attractive.he is losing his hair!!! I wouldnt change a thing about him.women go for personality and charm,respect,integrity.

Answer 10

I LOVE big guys who are flexible. You might try practicing yoga or some martial arts and dance classes to loosen up your bulk.

Think Jean Claude Van Damme...YUMMMY. He stocky, muscular and OOOOHHHH so flexible.

Answer 11

Confidence. It's all confidence. At least that's my point of view. I'm not sure about the women who are looking for metrosexuals instead of men.