i am the oldest of 4, AND the only girl. i mean, i love my brothers and everything but i jussst... too much time with them would make me want to die. REALLY. theyr 10, 8, and 6. im 15. i know its just a phase and all, but like i just really cant stand them anymore. they physically hurt me, and they inturde my life so that i get in trouble! like they really try to find a way to get me grounded or punished. i know tyhis is really immature but it just toooooo much!!!
2006-07-16 21:54:00 · 9 answers · asked by ina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Set up a time to talk to your parents alone. (without your brothers listening in) Explain in a non emotional way how you feel. Tell them you need your space. Ask them to set up ground rules about "bothering big sister" for your brothers. I'm guessing your parents don't realize how much more grown up you are compared to them.
If your parents aren't willing to listen, talk to a trusted adult. You'll feel better just talking about it.
2006-07-16 22:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by nightevisions 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I had three brothers too. We were rough and wrestled sometimes but they never hurt me. I think you should talk to your parents. Your parents might not be seeing the whole picture and are probably your best option at fixing this. Remind your parents that you need some space and time apart from them and be sure to spend time with them to. Even if its just watching a baseball game their in. Most of the time my brothers pestered me when I wasn't spending any time with them or the family. I know you have a life too but family comes first.
2006-07-17 02:35:56 · answer #2 · answered by Irish lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my god..Girl don't worry soo much i am in the same exact situation as you and all i have to say is tough it out! Boys are gonna be annoying no matter what and it's perfectly normal for brother's and sister's to get on eachother's nerves.Listen just try to keep your distance and if they are gettin on your nerves or tryin to bother you, just pretend you don't careand it doesn't bother you and they'll leave you alone! But look all im sayin is..thats life and unfortunatley, me and you gotta take it the hard way! If they are physically hurtin you, beat the **** out of them!! lol!! Just kidding...but they have to kno that thats not the way to do things and your 15..now come on they are way younger than you soo why don't you show them who is the boss!! Ok well hoped i helped you just a little!!:-)
2006-07-16 22:20:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not immature at all. It seems to be crazy over at your house. Try having a one on one serious conversation w/your parents (w/o you getting upset or raising your voice). Catch them at a time where there is downtime. Or tell your mom that you really need to talk to her about something that is really upsetting you and you want to talk to her out of the ho sue. Tell them that they are too aggressive w/you and it hurts! remind them that you are much older than them and are at a different stage of your life and you need some space. If you are mature and calm about the situation they may respond better.
2006-07-16 22:52:08 · answer #4 · answered by chill'n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 15 so the best thing you can do is kick some asss. Do it while their all smaller than you. If you have to get into a fist fight with the 10 year old before he gets much older. The younger ones will see that your tired of putting up with their sh!t and they will back off.
2006-07-18 04:42:19 · answer #5 · answered by Plantoneonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello dear...
i know you are really upset but its time you get hold of the situation. It seems that you have understood the scenario well but you dont know how to get out of it.
First of all talk about it to your parents. I am sure they will understand and talk to your brothers. But dont loose your head while doing so.
Be a bit stern with your brothers so they know they cant just take you for granted. On the other hand help them with their little problems so they look up to you as their elder sis ( i know it is difficult to do so with younger brothers but you can always try to establish peace).
A litttle patience from your side will surely help :)
2006-07-16 23:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by yashashvi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million.) No, She's being very paranoid. on the different hand, all children are about that stuff. IMHO, in simple terms say "**** it". this is no longer a friendship nicely worth having if she chooses now to not talk with you. Your youthful, friends come and flow. flow on. 2.) LOL No, if he did (and please excuse my crudeness), he ought to have tried to **** you or given you some type of obvious signal, fantastically in case you 2 had that threat like you defined it. He ought to have also kept in contact with you after your little ordeal. If reported issues are authentic, then there is an chance he does. section word: i stumble on it unusual that you ought to tell her you does no longer date him, yet your curious of even if he's fascinated in you... sounds contradictory in case you inquire from me. possibly your mendacity to your self and her?
2016-10-14 21:21:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i know were you are coming from i had three sisters they use to get me in trouble all the time so i started telling little whit lies to get them back and they stopped. heres one you can use go and tell your parents that you dont like them touching your underwear and htat you saw them touching the dirty ones to need more let me know
2006-07-16 23:43:16 · answer #8 · answered by jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are passing through a difficult situation
only time would prove healer.
2006-07-16 22:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋