I am a schoolgirl. My boyfriend who is 5 years older than me asked me to have a date but I replied him that i don't want to loose my virginity and i want to remain virgin till marriage. After that he asked for my a**hole and he told me that it does not have any hymen to be loosed. Now what should I do? Accept or reject?
2006-07-16 21:43:59 · 17 answers · asked by siahkolan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Reject.
I don't believe in sex after marriage, but if you feel that way, don't do it. I wouldn't consider you a virgin just because you had sex not in the normal way.
2006-07-16 21:47:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really had such high standards you wouldn't be going out with this asshole. It's obvious his only interest with you is you're young and totally naive. If you let him get his foot in the door and do what he asks he'll pressure you into going ahead and letting him have the rest of you. He'll call you various things and make you feel bad until you give in because he's older, you're younger and you enjoy showing him off to your girlfriends who are still probably playing in the sandbox and you don't want to lose him. Don't be stupid, drop the son of a *****, he's no good for you or anyone else for that matter.
2006-07-17 04:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity isn't only about the hymen. You wouldn't be a virgin even if you have it from the back. A virgin means a person who's never participated in any sexual acts, let alone a pervy one that is considered sin in most religions! Dump him for good, you deserve somebody more respectful.
2006-07-17 04:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scientifically you would not loose the hymen.
But there are several problems associated with what he is asking, i expect him also be to little ignorant on this count.
The rectum part is very tight and the muscles can tear in this act. It would be quite painful in the first place to bear and it may put you off for rest of your life if not done properly.
Besides risk of infection is very high.
I hope you are now well equipped to decide what to do.
2006-07-17 04:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose the boyfriend, he doesn't like or love you he just wants a conquest, and he is an a**hole, just like what he is trying to ask you for. Find a nice person who will respect you, obviously this guy definitely does not.
2006-07-17 04:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ewww... No matter what sex it is whether front or back is you being a complete virgin. Do not give into his request. If you don't want to then don't.Don't do it to please him you'll feel bad about it afterwards. He obviously doesn't respect you and that you'd like to be a virgin. He just wants to get laid. Don't let anyone pressure you to do anything you don't want to do
2006-07-17 04:47:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let a dumb frat boy like him make your decisions for you. He's only looking at you for sex, and that's just wrong. How long have you been "dating"? If he's 5 years older, something's up.
2006-07-17 04:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by minerva779 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that its not right dont do it dont let him push you into something that you really dont want to do if he cant accept you for wanting to stay who you are then Reject
2006-07-17 04:50:33 · answer #8 · answered by miss. k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's still a sexual act, a dirty perverse one. If he can't respect your decision to stay a virgin and cant respect you, then he's not the guy for you.
Definitely tell him NO....
2006-07-17 04:47:49 · answer #9 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to get rid of him, he dose not seem to respect your decisions, you don't have to provide your a$$hole to him if you don't want to, it is your a$$ after all. talk to him and tell him your decision and stand your ground, if he still instates on your a$$hole then loose him he is not worth it and trust me there is lots of more fish in the pawn,..
2006-07-17 04:46:21 · answer #10 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋