i never call back my friends or gf sometimes for no reason when they give me calls. they think im arrogant but i just have an aversion for no particular reason.
my friends have stopped calling me now. what do i do?
2006-07-16 21:43:05 · 7 answers · asked by manic_chili_pepper 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
no. im an aries
2006-07-16 22:45:39 · update #1
Obviously your not a coward and you are trying to face your situation because you're here. But it sounds like to me, you may be be suffering from "what it" disease. Forget "what if", do what your soul tells you to do, and realize that by not answering you are answering....just not how you probably intended. Give your friends a call. I'm sure they would love to hear from you. And your soul will feel better in the end.
2006-07-16 22:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by jazzzame 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As you said, your friends have stopped calling you.
Thats often all it takes.
It's not that you're a coward. Perhaps you're afraid of commitment, or you just need time to yourself.
I never call my friends of family. I have been away for more than a year, and have never called them. They dont call me, but sometimes you dont necessarily have to be in contact with people for them to know that you still care about them.
If they are getting bothered by this, then obviously there is something wrong in the friendship chemistry, and you are just meant to be friends with others.
As long as you aren't hurting anyone in the process, for example just not ringing someone because you never want to see them again... that's wrong. It's painful because they may not know why you are ignoring them.
Everybody deserves an explanation, however if its just a simple not calling every day or hour or whatever... find new friends.
Running away from your problems? Hahah I ran halfway across the world because I coudln't be bothered facing my life anymore.
Are you a pisces?
2006-07-16 22:40:59 · answer #2 · answered by kara_nari 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you are coward or arrogant , otherwise you wouldnt be asking this question and trying to find answers for your behaviour. I feel you have lack of confidence to call back someone and talk, maybe because you feel that there is nothing to be talked about. You can come over from this by deciding what to talk with your friends in advance and then giving them a call.
2006-07-16 21:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by jinnie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 21:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometime you should cast aside your pride, you don't have to wait for people to call you all the time right??
2006-07-16 21:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by pn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a shrink
2006-07-16 22:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are what you make of yourself! it's their advice that you need, say so your sorry and tell them that you are the one who need help.
2006-07-16 22:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by roel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋