2006-07-16 20:30:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To receive trust, you have to give trust.
Also, as I've already pointed for other questions - pay attention to her. Pay attention to what she likes, to what she doesn't like, to what she tells you, to why she says it, to what she doesn't tell you and why, pay attention to what she needs, pay attention to and respect her opinion. Nothing, I mean NOTHING will win somebody's affection as surely as paying that person honest and total attention. (and that means acting in ways to show you've paid attention, too)
2006-07-16 20:34:12 · answer #1 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off you had to do something badd for her not to trust you an if you didn't why did you get married if you didn't have trust dont you kno trust is the key factor in a successful any thing especially a marriage.You need to let her come around to trusting you its a time thing talk to her about it.
2006-07-16 20:35:50 · answer #2 · answered by miss. k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have done something that has caused her to distrust you, only time will help you. AND... even if you haven't...one thing is to ALWAYS follow through on anything you say. If you say you are going to do something, DO IT. Never fall back on a promise. As far as loving you alot, share some intimate times with her. Maybe tell her a few secret feelings you have, provide a little insight into your emotions that no one else has, as it provides extra closeness. Good luck to you.
2006-07-16 20:36:46 · answer #3 · answered by crazymomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes losing someones trust is something you cant undo and the damage will never really be healed but you've got a reasonable chance depending on what you've done. there's no recipe to make some one love you or trust you so for the trust part i'd say 'behave' be relieable and obviously trust worthy. and treat her well, spoil her and notice the lil things she does for you. it might be annoying having to suck up all the time but she'll reward you in other ways. it will take time to repare damage but it'll happen.
2006-07-16 20:36:14 · answer #4 · answered by bluecherry41 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have lost your wife's trust, only time will heal her wounds. You must honest with your answers and be accountable for time, actions and behavior. If you love her, she will know if you are sincere with efforts. Good luck...and one more thing....tell her you love her everytime you have the opportunity. A woman loves to hear those words from the man she loves!
2006-07-16 20:37:15 · answer #5 · answered by ?? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right it is the deal. purely she would be able to furnish you her love! you may desire to alter to make your relationships extra desirable. you won't be waiting to repair this dating with all the wear and tear carried out. yet you won't be able to maintain reliving this so take a deep look at your self and alter on your sake. i don't understand you or her yet whilst somebody is doing various accusing it is an illustration of guilt. possibly it is a few thing she did it is inflicting all this. You displaying your anger and no information then your no longer likely everywhere on your dating yet interior the trash. in case you want your dating to proceed then you definately could desire to stay with what ever got here approximately and end employing splitting up as a fashion out. check along with her and conform to take the super D be conscious out of your talks or arguments. You what to stay your existence jointly then do no longer use that as a probability. Its as much as you to take the bull with the aid of its horns.
2016-11-02 05:00:09 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you cheated, you'll never get her back 100% ever again no matter what you do or say.
The challenge is to commit to yourself to always be there because the hurt will be there for many years, yes years. I am very sorry for you because you ruined a beautiful thing and woman for all the wrong reasons.
2006-07-16 20:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by Peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have done something to lose that trust the only thing that will truelly help you to gain it back is time.
Being honest and communicating,
2006-07-16 20:36:43 · answer #8 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The nature of your question denotes the nature of your being.
Trust isn't a way to trick people - trust is something you have until you've broken it - did you break something, sport? >:))
If you regain her trust, you'll never have it back to where it once was, even if you had 100 blissful years of marriage or more
oops, I have a penis - nevermind!
2006-07-16 20:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by ryandebraal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
patience,understanding. You both need to understand why you did what you did. After 10 years I still occasionally have moments of doubt but my husbands really didn't try, just expected me to forgive and forget. Don't overdo being the devoted husband she needs to deal with this also herself but be perpared for when she may need you.
2006-07-16 21:53:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋