I asked my bf when he is more active in sex at night, as after sex he feels tired and can sleep straight away. But i know i prefer in the morning, as i feel refreshed after sex, whereas i feel sleepy at night and may not have the mood.
I have no idea how to solve the difference in the timing? How? Is there any kind guy here can provide some solutions?
2006-07-16 20:25:54 · 13 answers · asked by a V a 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wake up before him, get some caffeine ready, & wake him up with some fondling or oral. I don't know any man who doesn't like to wake up to oral. However, sometimes being in a relationship means putting your partners' needs above your own, & vice versa. Sometimes, you may need to let him get an early start on you in the evening, so he can turn in early & you can use some of that extra energy. And sometimes, he may have to get some extra caffeine in his system to pleasure you when you like. Also, if he is on top, that might explain his being worn out & you being refreshed. You may need to switch to being on top from time to time, so maybe you won't be as energetic, & he'll be less apt to fall asleep afterwards. As long as you're both enjoying it, it's all good. You may never "solve" the timing, but you can still have a healthy, fulfilling sex life together. Best of luck.
2006-07-16 20:31:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like sex early in the morning - that way he may go back to sleep, and if I can't (though I feel refreshed, that usually isn't a problem), I can get up and start my day (like prepare a breakfast for him) on weekends. On weekdays, I prefer at night usually, because I feel too nice after sex to go to work...
2006-07-17 03:30:13 · answer #2 · answered by AlphaOne_ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromising .... i may tell find a time between i mean like in the noon or something but that will not be practical so .. you need to compromise ... Davide the month to quarters (4) and each quarter will be for a time and try to fix that to your work or study schedules ... i hope that works for you
2006-07-17 03:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by Clark794 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if anyway possible pick sometime in the early evening Or start at night but don't stop until morning.
2006-07-17 03:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by lovely soul with insite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a boyfriend that can do it when you want! Just tell him you want it in the morning, if he doesn't want it in the morning, then he doesn't get it at night! Most guy will do just about anything for sex, including catering to your needs...
2006-07-17 03:32:21 · answer #5 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try having a shower that will wake you up a bit. do not eat anything too late. The most thing is set a time where you both go to bed together.
2006-07-17 03:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by scarlet pimpernell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to bed earlier for a week and maybe he will feel more refreshed in the morning and up to it, maybe he is working to hard in the day and cannot wake up with any energy.
maybe he is worried about something!
how about on your day off you just don't get up at all!!
2006-07-17 03:33:33 · answer #7 · answered by pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spread your sex out. Continue to have it at night, but make sure that he commits to pleasing you on those mornings when he doesn't have to go to work.
2006-07-17 03:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by Big Daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since this is the case, try to work out a timing that suit both of you. There bound to be a timing where both of you can be suitable. This is to be explore by both of you
2006-07-17 11:07:24 · answer #9 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its all in his mind. Do it to him a few time in the morning n he will get use to it and begging for more next time.
Morning is definitely more fun!
2006-07-17 05:04:15 · answer #10 · answered by Meowfy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋