do you think we'r rety
2006-07-16 20:22:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
WHOA!!!!! I JUST READ SOME OF YOUR OTHER QUESTIONS AND YOU ARE ONLY 12 OR 13!!! YOU SHOULD BE THINKING ABOUT CLASSES,DANCE LESSONS, CHEER PRACTICE, FRIENDS, MUSIC--BUT NOT SEX!!! HOW DARE "YOUR PARENTS "SAY TAHT YOU CAN HAVE SEX!! THEY NEED TO BE REPORTED AND YOU NEED COUNCILING FROM THE EXPOSURE YOU HAVE ALREADY HAD. BACK UP AND BE A KID! MOST OF THESE ANSWERERS PROBABLY DIDN'T SEE YOUR OTHER QUESTIONS AND YOUR "AGE" NOW YOU CAN READ MY FIRST ANSWER, IT STILL APPLIES EVEN IF YOU ARE STILL A BABY WHO NEEDS TO ENJOY BEING A PRETEEN AND TEEN AND YOUNG ADULTHOOD BEFORE ANY MORE SEX TALK!................bf and u, uh...NO! You haven't even started to understand what sex at an early age will do to you both and your future. If you are ready to take a next step in you relationship, try working on your goals. Do you have similar goals? Are religions the same? Are you planning on marrying this person,why? Do you ever think that you are afraid or uncomfortable around this person? How is his homelife? You will adding that to your future because that is what he knows.Are you going to college? Will your careers split you up, or be in different areas of the world? The next ? is a biggie! Now think about doing all of the above with a baby! Or how will you deal with giving a baby up for adoption or worse abortion? Will you be able to succeed with these baby decisions made? Or how about living with a std? Will also affect you future babies, your spouse? Or will the std be one that will kill you? Or make you infertile? How will he afford child support as a teen or will he be able to go to tech school or college and work enough to pay for college, a home and baby? If he runs out, and lots of guys do run out, how will you support the baby and take care of it? Are you two willing to make a child 1st and leave your fun years behind? Think about it!! IF YOU DECIDE TO HAVE SEX NOW YOU ARE AGREEING TO ACCEPT ANY OR ALL OF THE ABOVE! Pregnancy happens with condoms,pills,foam,implant, etc. and so do std.ARE YOU PREPARED TO SUFFER THE CONQUENCES?? Did you know that you may break up shortly and then it will harder to say no next time because you will feel like you have already done"IT" so why not. Your self esteem go down to nothing and along with it your goals. I hope that you will choose to wait until you both are financially,physically, mentally, and emotionally prepared for such a big decision so you can have a great future!
2006-07-16 20:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you need to get married first. Then you'll be ready. Also, you need to be able to support children. Then you'll be ready.
You need to realize sex is a life-uniting event. And if you just have it with someone you aren't married to, then you're engaging in a life-uniting action without life-uniting intent. You will have a bond with each other that can never be broken, even years later when you're with someone else, and it will mess up future relationships, to some degree (may not completely mess them up, but, if you marry someone else (other than your bf), then sex with your future husband can never be as good as if you waited for him and made him the only one).
Then he would be special. Otherwise (if you have sex with those you aren't married to), when you do marry, the guy you marry won't be anything special. He won't be worth waiting for (at least not in your eyes).
2006-07-16 20:26:23 · answer #2 · answered by Wayne A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he has a good job, his own apartment or house, and your relationship has been steady and stable for year or more, and you have figured out how you will pay your bills, etc. if you get pregnant, then you are probably ready.
If you don't have that kind of relationship, sex can create feelings of attachment that aren't backed up by real life. So you both are vulnerable to being treated badly, but being attached because of sex.
And if you have that kind of relationship, then you are in a good position when you get pregnant. Because that can happen when you have sex.
2006-07-16 20:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Polymath 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats your age if your under 18 I would say no! But, either way I really don't think your ready if you have to ask complete strangers if your ready. Theres nothing wrong with waiting. I didn't have sex till I was 20.
2006-07-16 20:25:48 · answer #4 · answered by ~Bethany~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the most beautiful event inife. Go ahead. But take precaution like contraceptives. Better safe than sorry. And do it in the normal ways. Avoid the twisted circus tricks as seen on pornography sites. Have it clean and decent.
Happy mating.
2006-07-16 20:27:15 · answer #5 · answered by bharat b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not ready just wait till you grow up. Your other Question said you were 12yrs just cool your jets awhile.
Have a nice day
2006-07-16 20:32:31 · answer #6 · answered by Gary M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure that you really love each other because if there is no true love between you then, there is no commitment and this may result to breaking and misundestanding. all you have to do is to make sure of your feelings to each other but it is still the best to have sex after marriage.
2006-07-16 20:29:48 · answer #7 · answered by pabols 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn how to spell ready and then you are ready. Also wait until you are 16.
2006-07-16 20:26:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if you have to ask. Didn't I answer a question like this already?
2006-07-16 20:25:31 · answer #9 · answered by smartsassysabrina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Comment. except to grow up.
2006-07-16 20:29:40 · answer #10 · answered by powhound 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋