Do u like her to be more dominent and active? I mean she shows the urgency in sex? Or u prefer to be dominent and start it first?
2006-07-16 20:12:30 · 20 answers · asked by a V a 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It have to be a two way and not a one way. Sometimes, I would like her to show some urgency while I take over for some other times. Can you imagine that one party always want to have sex even though the other party may not wish to do so. So do you agree that it should be two way and not one way
2006-07-17 04:17:04 · answer #1 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Guys have absolutely NO problem with a girl starting first. That makes it easier for us since we know you are in the mood and we don't have to guess. Me personally, I like to be both dominant and submissive. Basically I love spankin some @ss, but I can take it in return.
2006-07-17 03:15:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is 2 people business, likewise is sex. Both can be dominent and active.
2006-07-21 04:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It needs to change... one should take charge for a while, then the other. It shows that you're interested, and keeps the mystery going (who's up next)... The same thing over and over is just boring. Why do you think so many people cheat? I bet one reason is that the sex life is too predictable.
2006-07-17 03:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by Shooter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer to be the dominant one
2006-07-17 03:17:08 · answer #5 · answered by icemanind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care who takes the first move. What is important that it should start.The only difference is if she starts first you get a better bargain, I mean a world of satisfaction without doing anything she does everything. Unbuttoning,touching, tickling,massage,takes you to that dizzy tingling height of satisfaction. And if you make the first move you have to do all for her she just lies back and enjoys the fondling,fingering kissing and caressing,and off course the final assault
2006-07-17 03:26:55 · answer #6 · answered by Alan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally prefer her to be the aggressor. I'm horny for the majority of the time and if I took the initiative upon every urge to petition my wife for some, I'd face a lot of rejection. When I wait on her, I don't have to worry about being denied.
2006-07-17 03:15:38 · answer #7 · answered by Big Daddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love a girl who lets me know when she wants to have sex first, because that tells me she's as attracted to me as I am to her. I had an ex who I'd playfully shove onto the bed once in a while to let her know I wanted her. Well, one day, I came in from a hard day at work & she came to visit me at my place. I was about to sit on the bed to take off my shoes, & she shoved me onto the bed & just gave me a look that said she was going to have me right then. Who was I to argue? That was such a turn-on it seemed like the aches, pains, & frustrations of the work day disappeared almost instantly.
2006-07-17 03:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one should be dominating,should be more of a mutual process..Well if girl take a lead then its little better.
2006-07-17 03:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both should be equal...I mean...there's nothing wrong being agressive and be a leader in sex...but sometimes you can just turn into a submissive type if you want it...
2006-07-17 03:17:43 · answer #10 · answered by belle_chocolatiere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋