There is this one guy who I don't know that lives close to me that goes to a part of texas where my long distance gf lives. And he has tried to kiss her and she stopped him and he still hugs her and stuff my gf says its just friend stuff and I believe her because she talked to him and told him she loved me. He still hugs her and acts all buddy buddy with her. What should I do? I trust her its just him I don't trust.
2006-07-16 20:08:33 · 7 answers · asked by switchfootrocks44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He also flirts with her like trying to tickle her and stuff.
2006-07-16 20:10:51 · update #1
And about the tickling thing she ignored him and went inside
2006-07-16 20:21:44 · update #2
He also says he is moving there soon and I wanna .well its gotten to the point I'd come close to killing him......seriously he tried to touch my gf and he won't be here til wednesday-thursday.... She slapped him for trying to touch her and he just doesn't seem to listen and my gf doesn't want me to get mad?!!?!? She says not to yell at him or anything and not to fight him!!! I STILL WANNA KNOCK HIS ******* HEAD OFF!!!!!
2006-07-17 16:46:05 · update #3
She says she'll take care of it by u know basically doing what she did telling him no and slapping him.
2006-07-17 16:46:53 · update #4
she shd actually stop meeting this guy without u tellin her, buddy!
trust is a fine thing...u really got guts...hope everything works out...
maybe u shd have more friends, apart from the gf...
2006-07-16 20:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by El-rene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand that it's just friend stuff but friendship has a line that can be crossed "it just happened" and your gf shld tell this guy that she likes him as a friend but loves you and is uncomfortable with him hugging and tickling her especially since he hasn't met you and she doesn't want you to get the wrong idea. If he truly is just a friend, he will understand and back off. If not, then his intentions are certainly not just friendship and your girlfriend will have to make a choice.
2006-07-16 20:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she knows that it bugs u she should really put an end to it if some one was doing something to me and it bugged my man then i would put a stop to it u need to tell her that it bothers u if she blows u off then maybe she don't feel the same way u feel about her don't be mean about it just inform her see how she takes it i would not talk to him about it until u see how she deals with it if she not going to try to cut it out then neither is he hope it helps (i am also a very loud and out spoken person maybe she just needs a little help to get her voice out there)
2006-07-16 20:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is very simple either you do or you don't. Don't pretend you are okay with something but hedge it by saying something else. Sit with yourself and revisit your concerns about long-distance relationship and your gf interaction with ole' dude, then speak to your girlfriend openly and honestly. Then, if you say I trust her you need to behave as if you do. Your relationship is with her not this other guy.
2006-07-16 20:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by forever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to the guy. Of course you need to do something for your girlfriend. I think she is also irritated with his actions thats why she go everytime that guy started to flirt her. Save her or else that guy can do something nasty
2006-07-16 20:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by heaven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There you go...he has tried kissing her...that was his first intention...do something to stop it as soon as you can. Buddy buddy crap...no such thing.
2006-07-16 20:15:01 · answer #6 · answered by Nevwe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good punch in the face should cure it
2006-07-16 20:13:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋