you think that your life is going great, i got a lovely boyfriend who i love most dearly, i am gonig to alot of gigs and seeing some very rocky awsome bands, but still down there below in my stomach i feel that there is something missing i hvnt tlked to me father in 3 years i wish i cud tlk to him but he has left no trace of his wereabouts and i think he may have changed his name i am so depressed my mother is a drunk and my boyfriend has just been expelled so i cnt see him untill i am about 16 and i am 14 now wat a bummer i have to go to skool nwo but please help me in tryin to get over my father gonig and my mother tryin not to drink for me which is lovely but she isnt tryin hard enough i know she can do it but she seems to love drink more than me please help goodbye
xxxx
2006-07-16 20:05:58 · 14 answers · asked by Deathkeeper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
that's sad.well i would go out and have fun,watch TV,and go exercise
2006-07-16 20:11:00 · answer #1 · answered by derek l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your mother to attend AA meetings. Don't think about your boyfriend and try to study hard, become a great student, read many books to understand the world, your father, your mother and yourself. Try to concentrate on things that will shape positively your future. Adults often do stupid things, just try to live your life and grow despite the bad situation.
Good luck sweetie. (said with the tone of an older brother, not as a perv).
PS: don't get into religion, Jesus, Christianity and all the other crap, they won't do any good for you.
2006-07-17 03:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by arkiso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet your mother loves you very much, but is going thru a hard time, too. She's getting some kind of escape from the alcohol. She may need professional help and definately needs a better coping skill. Hang in there, and pray for your family.
2006-07-17 03:16:57 · answer #3 · answered by lisacantcook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi
my name is kanishk
i also lost my father at an early stage
i wud suggest u that pls concentrate on urslf
see u were brought up in this world 4 something very special n that too is been asignd to u by god
dear sis no one is alone in this world pls try n find ur intrinsic feelings
concetrate on ur studies n motive of ur life
do some meditations and always walk on the path of truth sure u will find relaxe n god as ur father
2006-07-17 03:22:47 · answer #4 · answered by Kanishk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok-u gotta organise what u want urself to do in life.then what u from others. dont waste any more time crying. make some new buddies. and dont get too involved in stuff that depresses u. read some good bookb that will give u some idea as to what u want to do with ur life...try it...reading really helps.
i believe in prayer..even when u join a group, watch and see if its what u want..if u prefer prayer quietly then do it that way.u need time to urself,thats for sure!
2006-07-17 03:39:06 · answer #5 · answered by El-rene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U R 14,,, I KNOW U HAVE HEARD IT BE4 BUT U ONLY THINK THAT U ARE IN LOVE....OKOK...ALL U 14 YO OUT THERE QUIT YELLING AT ME...ITS TRUE...U WILL HAVE A LOT OF BOYS>MEN IN U LIFE THAT U WILL LOVE...I THINK THAT WITH ALL THE PROBLEMS IN U LIFE RIGHT NOW U ARE LOOKING 4 LOVE SINCE U DON'T FEEL IT AT HOME...U R 14 IT IS NOT U JOB TO HAVE ALL THIS ON U SHOULDERS SO YOUNG..DO U HAVE GRANDPARENTS? SOME ONE THAT IS RESPONSIBLE ENOUGH TO HELP U...I KNOW A LOT OF KIDS FEAR THIS ..
BUT U NEED TO GO TO SCHOOL AND FINISH YOUR LIFE OUT ...DON'T WORRY ABOUT THE BOY YOU WILL MEET SOMEONE LATER BELIEVE ME ...LOVE YOUR SELF...AND GET HELP FROM AN OLDER PERSON...
2006-07-17 03:26:22 · answer #6 · answered by meemeemee40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jesus is the answer he will fill any void in your life including a not having a father he is the best father and friend anyone can ever have just talk to him ,tell him about your hurt he already knows bbut he loves for you to talk to him just ask him to forgive you and come into your heart and he will be there for you through it all! he will change your life and he can use you to change your mom! with him the possibilities are endless my email is crystl-haley@yahoo.com
2006-07-17 03:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear friend,
please cool down and take stock of current situation. Remember, you can not change anyone but yourself. So concentrate on that and try to get out of this scum.
2006-07-17 03:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So why do you drink? If you hate it so much? Think about it and read your question, you may hate yourself in the morning, but you might see why we don't fel sorry for you. Good Luck, But if your spelling was better I may believe you!!!
2006-07-17 03:13:03 · answer #9 · answered by basscatcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do a Prayer, ill do one 4 u! Sry! Jesus is the key! Go for Him!
2006-07-17 03:08:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up
2006-07-17 03:19:44 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋