My best friend is 19 yrs old this year but she is still as "playful" as before. 2 mths ago we went to clubbing, she brought along one of his "brother", at 3pm i went home first, she went to that guy's house and they did it.. At that time she still had a bf! Then the 2nd day she broke up with her bf. THe guy she had sex is her ex's older brother! What the... Then now, after 2 mths, she got back with her bf again, but she told me he is just her scandal! I cannot believe and understand, WHAT THE HELL IS SHE THINKING ABOUT?
I have no idea what to do and say to her. How can i help her?! Or shall i just leave her alone?
2006-07-16 20:04:10 · 6 answers · asked by a V a 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She is my best friend, oh no lesbians, we both hate gays and lesbians.
We have got known eqach other for 5 years.
2006-07-16 20:23:23 · update #1
sounds to me like your best friend is living life and enjoying it. She is not married ..true she had a boyfriend as you put it at he time..and yes she cheated..and she broke it off after wards..to be with the guy she cheated with..which didn't work out as you put it..but never the less ..she is now back with her ex boyfriend you say and she is saying he is her scandal..which I do not understand ..must be a new young thing..( we never went back out with an ex once we broke it off in my day) but anyhow..she is young...your young...what makes the difference..as long as she is taking precautions and using protection against std's and unwanted pregnancy's ..why should you care who she sleeps with ? As for As for how can you help ..make sure she is protected as well as yourself....and get her tested..and you if your not using protection.....and why should you leave her..is she your girl friend? Lover? YOU never mentioned that anywhere??????...you just said she was she your best friend.....why end a friendship over this....?
2006-07-16 20:20:02 · answer #1 · answered by tamedthing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course u leave her alone, u r not doin it n she 's not doin ur bf,what u want ?
Don't say any thing remember keep your bf from her when she's clubbing, and your brother as well if you have one or else the next time it will be:"best friend bed boyfriend/brother,how?
2006-07-24 07:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by lucas l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your best friend doing is not acceptable. I think u should help her and not leave her alone. U should ask her what if her bf do the same thing to her and how will she feel.
By putting herself in other shoes, I think she will realised what is her mistakes and hopefully she can learn from this mistake and not to make the same mistake.
2006-07-17 01:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur best friend is doing a bad thing and u should help her and not leave her alone yea shes doin a bad thing and u think u cant help her but u can tell her how u feel and if u dont understand it tell her and tell her to explain it and ask her y is she doin this b/c she might be hurting this other persons feeling.
2006-07-16 20:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone
2006-07-16 20:15:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the hell? run like hell
2006-07-16 21:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by neverchild 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋