i have been expelled then susspended from skool for buying drugs in skool the reason i did this was because i was depressed and desperate not for attention but for somethin that will give me a little time to myself only my mother and her colleages know about this but some how my gran found out and is tryin to presuade me to tell my father i am extremly scared i mean how could you tell your father that your 14 year old daughter brought drugs in skool please help me and try not to give me abuse all i need is advise
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2006-07-16 19:56:55 · 11 answers · asked by Deathkeeper 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
I hope I don't sound too cliche here...I have been where you are. Please, just take every day in stride. Life blesses you in many ways when you are patient. Good luck, Hon.
2006-07-16 20:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by FairyGurl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are passing a phase of anxiety syndrome. Its common in people of your age.Idleness or not getting attention you think you should get, pushes you involunteringly to such acts.
Firt, you must decide to correct yourself, and never go for such things. Repeat it over and over in your mind that you will not do it. Think of the misery it brings, think of the time & money wasted, think of the pain the family undergoes. So you will be mentally geared to improve.
Take this thought with you when you go to bed. The thought becomes a dream. The dream gives motivating ideas. The idea
becomes words, and words become habit. You'll surely win.
As for the present trouble you are in, best is, however piainful & scarry, come clean abreast with your parents. It will be better, then sufering from not knwoing when you'll be pulled up. Family may scold, but they will definately help.
They may take you to a psychatrist, and theres nothing wrong in that. He will guide you, and maybe prescribe some medecines to over come your depression etc. and in a matter of few weeks you'll be just fine.
Dont worry. Make a clean start. And promises yourself to confide in family if you ever fell dull or lonely again. They will always be at your side.
2006-07-17 03:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by bharat b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a letter, most parents take that a little better. Talking may sometimes be a bit awkard. In the letter first explain what was bothering, hurting, or making you find a different solution. Tell him that you stopped and how now you think differently of things. Then mention to him what you did. But don't do drugs anymore. They end up giving you all kinds of mental problems, like you are scared all the time, you are hyper active until you get it or you can't sleep without it. E-mail me if you'd like and I'll tell you what I did.
2006-07-17 03:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by jazzoboist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My only advise from REAL personal experince is that drugs can only lead to 3 things:
1) jail
2) institutions
3) death
Be honest with your folks. You are only 14 and have so much to look forward to in life. If you are truly suffering from depression, then self medicating will only make things worse. Get some realcounseling. There are many resources to help. NA, AA,Teen Challenge, Narcon, etc. ( SEE YOUR LOCAL GROUPS)
2006-07-17 03:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a parent, I think this is a great opportunity for you to reach out. It sounds as though you are in need of some type of help since you say your reasons were depression and desperation. It is better that you take this to your father than for him to hear it from another source. You need to talk out your problems with someone either your parents or if you are not comfortable with that ask for counseling. There will probably be consequences for you, but that is how life is. In the end you are responsible for your own actions or lack their of. My children did things too when they were younger. I always had much more respect for them when they would come to me if they were in some type of trouble. Sooner or later your dad will find out either from you or someone else. You must express yourself to him in this situation. Sure, he will be angry, but he will appreciate that you came to him openly and honestly and respect you for it. Good luck to you in this situation.
2006-07-17 03:13:19 · answer #5 · answered by diaryofamadblackman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly. You need to act like a grown up. Quit making excuses why you did something and fess up. Also it would be worse for you if your father found out from someone other than you. But you knew what you were doing was wrong and you only have yourself to blame.
2006-07-17 03:05:25 · answer #6 · answered by Carpe Diem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, just do...I mean the truth can only stay hidden for so long and after all he is your father. It's something wrong that you did and face the situation...be responsible and tell the truth. Maybe he will get angry but at least he should feel better that you told him and he didn't hear it from someone else.
2006-07-17 03:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should see a doctor about your depression instead of self-medicating.
Talk to your dad after you've seen a doctor. That way you can tell him what happened, but you can also tell him that you're looking into the real cause and trying to never let it happen again.
2006-07-17 03:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by Dave R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't buy drugs again and try to explain to your dad why you did it maybe talking about it will help you out. Good luck hope it all goes well.
2006-07-17 03:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're going to have to tell them, otherwise he will find out on his own and it will be worse. It is your own fault that you did what you did and got caught, you now have to face the music and hope that in the future it will get better.
2006-07-17 03:02:53 · answer #10 · answered by Kiko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋