2006-07-16 19:16:23 · 14 answers · asked by Ariel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my husband has only been with me, but i have not only been with him, having that part of him is so special to me...its 100% priceless! nothing can replace it.
however, i would love him just as much, if he had been with another before me.
2006-07-16 19:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by Rose 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No. I try to look at it like this...your partner is with you now. They've chosen you. It's time to cherish what you have together and work to get to know each other as individuals. This may mean sexually if the relationship gets to that point. Each relationship can be unique and special even if there was someone in a partner's (or both partners') life before.
2006-07-17 02:28:46 · answer #2 · answered by Nic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would. But if God forgave him and he was keeping himself pure from that day on, I could see forgiving him also. Yes, the ideal partner is one that is virgin but my husband was not a virgin when I married him. But he only had sex once before. I figured God gives people second chances, why should I not?
2006-07-18 13:22:33 · answer #3 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that was in the past and I'm in the present. Now I would check him for an STD though. And also it depends if I know the girl.
2006-07-17 02:27:51 · answer #4 · answered by Sexieyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my fiance has slept with a few girls before i was with him and every now and then it bugs me coz he was my first but then without me saying anything he will just say how bad one of the girls were that he had slept with and tell me thet even know it was my first time (back when it was) that i was much better and now he cant handle me and loves telling his mates.
2006-07-17 02:32:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At first, it would really bug me, but as long as the guy is not affected by his last relationship and can prove that the ex is history, then I can accept him.
2006-07-17 02:23:19 · answer #6 · answered by -♡Pookie♡- 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to. Till I realized how stupid it was. I mean, I'd prefer someone with experience over someone with none at all. And does his past really matter?
Unless he has STDs.
2006-07-17 02:19:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, i wouldnt mind if he had already had sex with someone else...practise makes perfect or so they say!!
Corr, just think if he had been with a few people before he got with you...well, it makes your knees go just thinking about it!!!!
2006-07-17 05:31:28 · answer #8 · answered by splight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats in the past should remain there. WOuld not bother me as long as he did not bring it up all the time.
2006-07-17 02:20:29 · answer #9 · answered by barbaradjt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will somehow affect me, but will get over it if I like him.
However if his ex got pregnant or has a baby, I will choose to leave him.
2006-07-17 02:28:38 · answer #10 · answered by bluesea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all! now if it was an excessive number of people it would because of all the disease out there now days. but generally no it would not bother me.
2006-07-17 02:25:51 · answer #11 · answered by ford_friendly_female 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋