My ex and I broke up on really good terms. We still like eachother but we're both atypical Leo's and we clashed on some major things. Now we have decided to continue seeing eachother causually as neither myself or him want to be in a serious relationship. To make matters more interesting, he's moving in a month. So thoughts, comments... better causal then over????
2006-07-16 19:02:40 · 13 answers · asked by Chloe McIntosh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget him and look to the future.
2006-07-16 19:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think this is a good idea. I can see why this might seem like the answer tho.
You both still have strong feelings for each other and i am assuming still love each other but this is just a way of holding onto what you had and not wanting to let go and you wont get the chance to move on with your life until you break away from the past and move on.
Also it will make it much harder to cope with when he moves away because it will be like breaking up all over again. You should try to stop seeing him as much and when you do see him, do it as friends and not lovers. Still talk to each other but leave it at that. It will be difficult to start with but it will be best for you in the end and hopefully help you cope better when he leaves.
2006-07-17 04:45:35 · answer #2 · answered by crazychick_lou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the two of you are happy with being friends then i applaud you, but if he's moving soon and all you have a t moment is a casual thing, then surely it is coming to an end anyway? so best get out now and save yourself some heartache when he leaves?
i think i would prefer to have him or nothing, not anything in between but thats me personally, at the end of the day only you know whats in your heart and only you can decide what to do about it
god luck hun with whatever you decide :)
2006-07-17 04:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by sinnedfairy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep on talking my ex is my best friend. we just couldnt live together .Its also the adult way to end a relationship that just didnt work. If more people could end on good terms instead of waiting till you hate each other there would be a lot more happy people
2006-07-17 02:17:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think as long as you both talk you always have feelings....like you remember the good times and stuff like that and its easy to make a mistake again...its better over i think even though thats probably not what you want to hear?
2006-07-17 04:29:33 · answer #5 · answered by P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me and my x dont talk at all, I reckon its a good thing as we have both got on with our seperate lives, its helped get over him quicker and properly! Im not saying when a relationship ends you shouldnt have contact it depends I guess everyones diffferent!
Not sure I could have a serious relationship - casual??
2006-07-17 03:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would advice on "over", since hes moving anyways... long distances are going to be hard to keep. but if you let it go, friendship would still be in hold. At least if one of you gets a new flame, the other one wouldn't be as pained
2006-07-17 02:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by ebseller25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he's moving away, over is better. That way if one of you finds someone else (which is bound to happen) no one gets hurt and you can still remain friends.
2006-07-17 02:06:42 · answer #8 · answered by Nita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him move then its harder to talk. Avoiding talking will quicken up the getting over him phase and do not text or e mail stay away for your own sanity.
2006-07-17 02:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by Monkeyphil 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that its better not to talk with him...
dont you feel sad when you remember your good times?
i dont know..
i just choose not to talk with my exs!
2006-07-17 03:19:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋