i flirt way 2 much and my bf seems ok with it but i have this feeling hes not. im not sure what men feel about this kind of thing, im the type who would tell him if i was considering sleeping with someone else or if i even found someone attractive but still we have trust issues and i know i flirt with pretty well ever guy i meet. whats a guys take on this? it is wrong or hurtful or anything?
2006-07-16 19:00:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok ok ok . check it out thats not cool. cause if you are with him it is cause you like him. right? so than why would you want to be attracting other males. well it does bother us guys and if you bf is those who doesn't say anything watch out because because those are the ones that just study who you are in order to define your relationship. trust me i know my gf used to do that. till i brought up the subject.
2006-07-16 19:08:02 · answer #1 · answered by 011987@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, it is sending a message to your boyfriend, intentional or not. If you flirt frequently it says you are not happy or content with your boyfriend, it insults the man you are with, and that you want a lot of attention from other men. It also sends a message that you are insecure unless men acknowledge you. Most of us call a woman like that an "Attention Whore". I'll bet the women snicker at you, and your reputation is less than perfect with the people around you. It harms you and embarrasses him.
I've been with women that reacted extremely poorly when another woman flirted with me while on a date. It causes problems and It is bad for everyone.
2006-07-16 19:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by fortuitousoppty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't like it especially from overly jealous women, and especially in front of me. some girls get angry if i so much as glance at or say hi to an old friend but then they flirt with the waiter. Some girls have even tried to play it off like they are just being friendly but it's obvious to everybody but you what's happening. I sometimes think it's a test like you want me to beat the crap out of the waiter to prove i care, but i know the waiter has no loyalty to me and is doing no different from me stealing some other strangers girl, so i blame you not him. so yes it's wrong and hurtful, i doubt that you would like it if i started making advances on another girl while you were there, i'm sure you wouldn't like it even if you weren't there, so why in the world would it be ok for you to do it?
2006-07-16 19:10:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with flirting. I think it's a healthy way to boost your social skills! I often flirt with men when I check out the gorgeous men at webdate_dot_com...because not only are the men worth flirting for but also it's fun and innocent anyways!
2006-07-16 20:14:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably hurtful. I know I'd feel that way. It would make me feel like I'm not good enough for you. That I must be doing something wrong, if you have to flirt with other men just to get something that I'm not able to give you.
Just put yourself in his shoes for a minute. How would your feel if he was constantly flirting with other women. Jokingly or not. I'd bet you'd be a bit pissed off too after a while. Even if you never said anything to him about it.
2006-07-16 19:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by Microsoft Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I will tell you what is probably going through his head is he actually realizes the flirting is going on.
He is prob bally thinking why the hell should he care if your flirting with someone else cause it does not matter where you get the fire started just as long as you use his hose to put it out. Also if you have not noticed he maybe doing the same thing as you.
2006-07-16 19:39:48 · answer #6 · answered by ejholle1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, humans are still animals.. i think its ok if you flirt a bit with other attractive guys. but if you over do it, the guy that loves you might get jealous.. somewhat abandoned. that is where the problems starts coming in. guys will get hurt/jealous if girls flirt too much with other guys in relationships.
but on the other hands, assholes tends to like to show off their girlfriends.. if they don't seem to mind if you flirt w/ every other guys.. i wouldn't want to date that guy.
2006-07-16 19:07:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are naturally a 2 bit whore. Just let it out....why resist? If you can't help flirting with guys and imagining them in your pants then don't resist the urge. Go around, pimp yourself out until your 28, then settle down and get married.
2006-07-16 19:03:14 · answer #8 · answered by Mike42884 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I left a nearly perfect woman just because she flirted too much.
Ask him about it and keep at him until he gives you an honest answer.
2006-07-16 19:05:44 · answer #9 · answered by grubblywrigglysquigglywitchety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think flirting give thrills to the person who is doing that.However the partner may feel uncomfortable after seeing this type of flirt.After all flirtness is good tilll it does not affect that person who is dear and near to you.
2006-07-16 19:04:17 · answer #10 · answered by ajai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋