Me and my mom don't get along.I can't trust her and she can't trust me.I wish i could tell you the whole story but it would go beyond the 827 characters i have to work with!
2006-07-16 17:55:40 · 9 answers · asked by LoveFeli_xoxo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
It is so tough to deal without trust. If there is a person you both do trust, (priest, rabbi, minister, imam, guru or therapist) sit down with them. Try to find some common ground. Some one point you both agree on. Build from there. Agree to some ground rules. For example- no name calling. A simple format which might work would be: when you do this -it makes me feel like this. what i want is for you to do this. Remember you can love someone, but not like their behavior. Also feelings are not wrong. Whatever a person feels is OK. It is actions & words which hurt. So let her feel what she feels, but try to modify how she acts --same for yourself. Good luck. You are both worth how ever long it takes.
2006-07-16 18:07:32 · answer #1 · answered by roscoedeadbeat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just Think About This For a Moment
I Know You Didn't Ask To Be Born Butt
Do You Know How Much Trouble She Went Trough To Have You. If You Didn't Know?
Here It Goes., She Carried You In Her Belly For 9 Hole Mont's Then When You Get Out, She
Fed You Up, Changed Your Diapers, And Who Knows May Be You Are Still Living Of Her And Under Her Roof.
The Big Question Is: What Have You Done For Her. You Should Take Care Of Here Like E Queen, And She Will Take Care Of You Like A Princess
2006-07-16 18:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by Jose M R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit her down and tell her stright out u want a relationship with her, wether its just a quiet talk or a yelling match, get your point out os u can both work on trying 2gether and that alone will get the ball rolling 4 u. from there try a movie and coffee once a week, or something u both might enjoying doing. my point- find common ground, take things slowly, trust needs 2 b built bu b patient with eachother, its not built in a day and just keep activities simple 4 the time being.
good luck.
2006-07-16 18:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by J R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing Oprah ever said that I thought had some validity was something to the effect of " do you want to be right or do you want to keep the peace"
Dont put your mom in a situation that you need her trust I guess, and vice versa.
2006-07-16 17:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it that you guys dunt trust each other?.. hm ... look maybe your mom feels unrespected by you or maybe you are the only chid.. the only girl that shes kind over protective.... if there is a lot of tension in the relationshio is mainly because there is no attention ... have you ever told each other you mean the world to each other?.. i lost my mom andi will give my life to see her just for an hour.. again :( .... tell her you love her ...
2006-07-16 18:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time, patience and space healed my relationship with my mother. My reasosnings would also fill up this whole page. Good luck Hon! Thanks for posing the question!
2006-07-16 18:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by Gothic Martha™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has to start somewhere, start by saying I love you when you go to bed, or go out with friends. Just say I love you mom good night.
2006-07-16 17:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by Grandma of six 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about talking to her about what you could do different so she could trust you, and what she could do different so that you could trust her?
Sorry it isn't an easy, or funny answer, but it might help.
2006-07-16 18:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by nickipettis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be formal just spend some more time with her & help her in her work
2006-07-16 18:41:18 · answer #9 · answered by tejashree d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋