this boy is the oldest child and has 2 sisters , he is very nervous and agressive,he has poor school acheivments,his parents raised him in an agressive way...but now thay realized the problem and asking if he needs psycho-therapy..and what to do to manage at home?
2006-07-16 17:55:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
psycho-therapy will NOT help, so save your time & money....behavior modification; & see cnvc.org, ...
2006-07-16 17:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by bjoybeads 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have the parents go to the child's school and speak to the principal. Request testing for any possible learning disorders. Make your request in writing and give it to the principal. School personnel are mandated by law to test this child within 30 days. Don't let them talk their way out of compliance. Also, take the child to a doctor for a full physical. Make sure that he does not have any medical conditions that could be causing his "nervousness." Also, what do you mean by "aggressive way"? Was this child abused? Abused children tend to display many "universal" behaviors. Is he hurting himself or others? If the child has poor anger-management or problem solving skills. GIVE HIM SOME. Enroll the child in anger-management classes and or counseling. Your could also hire a school psychologist to conduct a "Functional Assessment" to determine why he behaves the way he does in school. As you can see, there are lots of things that you can do.
2006-07-17 01:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by MrG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is to get the child and the whole family in counseling. It is not too late to change the manner of discipline used, the boy needs to learn that his behavior will not be tolerated. Punishments can be such things as time outs, grounding from his favorite toys or games. When a punishment is set it must have a time assigned to it, and DON'T GIVE IN!!!! Follow through with it. It's hard, but every child needs boundaries.
good luck, I hope this helps a little.
2006-07-17 01:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not just about him anymore. The whole family needs counseling from some source. If he is to trust his parents again, he needs to hear it, and then have it explained in terms he can understand.
Fear, abuse, anxiety, it all shows itself in different ways. It remains in the body cells, until a time that it can be released. I have worked as a Massage Therapist on Adults that were being "Re-parented", however, they were Incest Survivors.
Home is the one place where he re-lives these old experiences, even if the environment has changed. Subtle reminders to him, that bring forward old memories.
It's Dr. Phil time..... Take Care.
2006-07-17 01:08:47 · answer #4 · answered by gypsyworks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
patients and love and parents need to take parenting class themselves. then see if the child needs the therapy.
2006-07-17 00:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy him an ice-cream and bring him to playground, if can ask his parents to see psysho-therapy rather than he go... and problem won't get solved if teaching style of parents does not improved.
2006-07-17 01:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by weru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just now realizing the problem!? Yes, the poor boy needs some therapy....if he's not anti-social already!! Good God, WTF!?
2006-07-17 01:02:18 · answer #7 · answered by Jen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋