So I was dating this guy I met online. And one day he totaly dissapears and I haven't talked to him in 3 weeks now, and I've met another guy that I chat with all the time and really like. But I keep thinking my old bf would come back and then maybe it'll be that something bad happened to him and then I'd feel bad for leaving him. But at the same time I have this other guy that is closer to my age and that I chat with a lot and I really like him. I'm totally at a loss of what to do. Suggestions PLEASE!
2006-07-16 17:49:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you need to just move on with this new guy you seem to have so much in common with. I don't know what to make of your old bf, if he's in jail or literally fell off the face of the Earth. Three weeks of not talking is an awfully long time to not speak with someone you care about.
Since he can't show you the proper respect of contacting you, I say go for the new guy. Best of luck to you!
2006-07-16 17:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by jerkygirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all, the best advice I can give is follow your heart. That advice was given to me several years back in a simular situation. But it remains true to this day. It is true there could be something bad that has happend. but there is definately something to just disappearing. If you ever need someone to talk to you can im me at mystcsmoke@yahoo.com Well good luck with your delima
~Smoke~
2006-07-17 00:55:22 · answer #2 · answered by Spyder 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, he left YOU. Even if later it turns out something did happen, if you think this new guy is worth it, go ahead and go with him. But always be cautious!
2006-07-17 00:55:36 · answer #3 · answered by InfiniteAri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he didnt tell you or try to tell you why he went away than he doesnt care... he probbly found another online chick
you really shouldnt stress things if its just an online thing...
2006-07-17 00:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by Nicoley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow im in the same situation. i'm seeing both until i know which one i feel more compatiable with then pick one
2006-07-17 00:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by princessashley2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the guy that is going to stay around and forget the other guy
2006-07-17 00:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by mylove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date the guy that is closer to your age. forget about the other guy. he dumped you not you dumped him. he left not you.
2006-07-17 00:57:06 · answer #7 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date them both.
2006-07-17 00:52:27 · answer #8 · answered by bullfrog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll pray for you on this.
2006-07-17 00:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by Turmoyl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋