2006-07-16 17:41:57 · 32 answers · asked by Love4Life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think men live with, marry and stay with women because they love them. If they find another woman and say they love them more, they are lying and they will always go back to the arms of the wife/mother of their children. If they say they don't want to hurt their wife and that is why they don't leave...well not wanting to hurt someone comes from love. Sometimes I think that men don't realize they love their wives but in the end they always do.
2006-07-17 04:04:24 · answer #1 · answered by applecheeks 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Because comfort is an important thing to a lot of people. I've known a few guys in that situation before. I suppose there are other factors at play we may never truly understand, because we are not in their heads....but maybe they really do still care about these women enough to be too afraid of hurting them, Or maybe they are just lazy. Men are at times, enigmas I may never fully understand.
2006-07-16 17:45:28 · answer #2 · answered by outlandsishlady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What they tell others and how they really feel towards the women they are with might be two different answers. He might be telling the mistress one thing but really does still have feelings for his wife and is not going to leave.
2006-07-16 17:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by justduh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a feeling of being in a comfort zone...they are afraid to leave...things may not work out and then where would they be?? and how do you know they don't love them?? there are many kinds of love...and even if they said they did not love the woman they lived with are they telling you the truth??
2006-07-16 17:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
commitment, kids, the fact that leaving a wife means loosing everything youve worked for. he may not love her but he respects her and doesnt want to hurt her, and million other reasons, depends on the guy
2006-07-16 17:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by johnperry_rydz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont want to heart the girls feelings. He may not love her that much. But sometimes that girl loves the man to death. And most men dont want to leave that.
2006-07-16 17:45:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finances! If I divorce my wife it will mean splitting assets of about $250,000 if you include my penson plan and all. Not wanting to hurt the innocent party also factors in!
2006-07-16 17:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by old dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pity,comfort,guilt,a challenge,trophy girlfriend, or mental abuse. I believe that if you know the man and you know the woman then you probably can pick from one of the above mentioned,am I not correct? TRUST ME personal experience.
2006-07-16 17:49:55 · answer #8 · answered by Cath 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is not because of the kids that they had....Maybe her love is very much to him than the girl who he should be with.
She has given her everything,...cares,attention,services, even her life..She sacrifice anything to him...that he feel sorry to leave her and will not leave her that can hurt her.
2006-07-16 17:51:41 · answer #9 · answered by Fie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Comfort.
It's like having an old piece of clothing that's pretty much rags now... but you've had it so long, your comfortable with it.
Granted you don't wear it out to eat, but it nice to wear at home.
2006-07-16 17:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by Swordfish_13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋