I dont think everyone got the full story on the last question so ill talk it all through. she has been a really good freind for about a year and we both liked each other but never said anything. about 2 months ago we started going out and i have never been so happy in my entire life. she was perfect in every way. at least for me. she went camping for a week and when she came back i couldnt see her for another day, but we talked and everything seemed normal. but i could tell the next day that she didnt like me anymore. i asked her about it and she said she didnt feel the same. i need her back. she kept me alive, she kept my heart going and even tho i dont have her she still does, i have hope, but its not enough. i really do love this girl, i never did anything to hurt her, and i cant think of any reason she would leave me. its not another guy i already know that tho. any help would be appreciated.
2006-07-16 17:39:02 · 9 answers · asked by Charlie P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first make sure she knows how u feel secnd u MUST know what's the problem if she really doesn't feel the same then out of ur love for her respect that & try to be friends again if the problem is something else then u should work through it together & whatever the outcome is you seem to have a heart
that will enable u to rise over ur problems hope u live a life full of happiness & joy [sooner or later]
2006-07-16 18:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
From your story if I got it right, you and that girl didn't have any love relationship at all. You went out together but as friends only. Perhaps, you should have told her, at least, that you wanted her to be your girlfriend during those times that she went out with you. But it's never too late for you to do that. Let her know your special feelings for her. Court her. Tell her that you honestly love her. That could be all that she was waiting for from you.
You said that as far as you know there is no other man involved between you. With that, your hope to win her is even greater. Don't just give up on her. Show her that you really care for her. Pamper her with your love. If she had feelings for you before but was just thinking that you did not feel the same, her consciousness will be awakened by your letting her know that you love her a lot. Don't waste some more time to do that for tomorrow may be too late. Good luck.
2006-07-17 00:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know it hurts my last boyfriend was my 1st everything we started dating 6 yrs ago so he was my 1st kiss well we broke up but we were still best friends then we started dating seriously again 1 year ago and he became my 1st love and we took each others virginity but he dumped 1week before our 1year anniversary he said he just didnt feel it anymore... point being sometimes the feeling just leaves no matter what we do right and sometime it only leaves one not the other leaving the one still in love to hurt
2006-07-17 00:47:53 · answer #3 · answered by hrtbrkr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this case it seems the old adage its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved. at least she is being honest and you have to respect her for that .if you can stay friends that would be great but let her move on and most important you have to move on. if you cannot accept her decision then love will soon turn to hate
2006-07-17 01:17:00 · answer #4 · answered by michaelnangle2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time. It's never easy, 4 me it took about 2 years. -((( Others I know were luckier or maybe stupider. (Diving 2 soon into a new relationship can be hell rather than heaven)
2006-07-17 04:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by John "007"!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE NORMAL AND THE SAME OLD FREN TO HER THAT SHE LIKED . TELL HER NEVER MIND IF SHE DOESNOT WANT TO GO AROUND WITH U BUT ASK HER THAT YOU GUIES CAN STILL BE THE SAME OLD ONES AND FORGET WHAT YOU SAID TO HER!
I AM SURE SHE WILL DO THAT AGAIN AND ATLEAST YOU WILL B HAPPY AGAIN THAT YOU WIL GET HER COMPANY BACK!
BELIEVE ME ---- " TRUE LOVE ALWAYS WINS"
AND I AM SURE IT WILL B A WIN-WIN CONDITION AND ONE DAY SURELY U WILL GET HER!
SO, GO AHEAD !
GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-17 00:52:23 · answer #6 · answered by priyanka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY TO SAY BUT IT SOUND LIKE SHE JUST DIDNT
FEEL THE SAME WAY AS YOU DID, I KNOW THAT YOU FEEL
THAT YOUR HEART WILL NEVER MEND. BUT IT WILL TAKE
TIME. BUT YOU NEED TO MOVE ON AND FIND SOMEONE
THAT WILL LOVE AND RESPECT YOU . IT SOUND LIKE YOU
ARE A NICE GUY AND YOU NEED TO GO OUT AND FIND THAT SOMEONE. SHE OUT THERE. HANG IN THERE IT WILL
GET BETTER, IT DOESNT SEEM LIKE IT NOW, BUT YOU WILL
FIND THAT RAINBOW THAT YOU LOOKING FOR.
EXPECT IT
TO SEE WHAT OUT THERE AND GO FOR IT, HANG IN
THERE IT WILL GET BETTER, AND YOU WILL SEE THAT YOU
WILL FIND LOVE AGAIN.
2006-07-17 00:52:35 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time! Mate its **** but the only way :)
2006-07-17 03:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the one you gave it to return it..
2006-07-17 03:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋