Do you think like a guy when you first meet someone. I mean about sex. or do you have to get to know someone before the thought even enters your mind? The question isn't if you sleep with someone right away but for those of you who don't do you think about it on first meeting? Maybe I am weird but I think about kissing someone and have on first meeting but nothing else until a relationship develops.
2006-07-16 17:33:24 · 15 answers · asked by JustWant2B 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO I am not 14 almost 35 can't there just be some decent woman who don't just want sex why do I only sound 14. tired of sex, sex, sex beng the most important thing in life.
2006-07-18 05:56:33 · update #1
when i first meet a man i do not think about having sex with him at all....i do think about things i may like about him...and there is nothing wrong with kissing on a first meeting...i think getting to know someone first makes sex more rewarding....
2006-07-16 17:37:12 · answer #1 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello, before I was married I dated quite a few men and sometimes depending on how he looked and or where I met him yes I did think the way guys do. Other times, it didn't cross my mind until the 3rd date! Kissing was and still is very important to me! I love kissing and yes I kissed almost every time on the first date. To me, if he could kiss well then maybe..... the sex would be good too but many times that wasn't the case.
Oh well, good question and I hope this helps you.
Good luck
2006-07-20 11:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think about sex at all when I first meet a guy. The only thing I think of in that regards is if they are someone I am attracted to or not. Thinking about having sex, I guess usually happens after the guy starts pressuring me, cause in his opinion we have been together too long, not to be having it. I usually only want it after I am in a long-term committed relationship, that I believe is the one I will be with forever. Sadly it hasn't turned out this way yet, because I am beginning to learn that all men are jerks in one way or another. I gave my whole heart and soul to the one I am with now, and now he doesn't think he can handle the relationship because I have a 17 year old daughter and she can cause some stress sometimes. He knew this when he asked me to marry him. So it looks like I will be alone again, cause I will not abandon my daughter or whatever he is asking of me? So, I can't honestly see me thinking of that for a long time after this guy, but the true answer to your question is in the beginning. The rest of this is just rambling about MEN. It gets more and more difficult to feel that way the more times you get burned.
2006-07-19 23:39:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not going to lie, when I see a guy I like, I look at him from head to toe and wonder what's underneath them jeans. Some of us are like men and revolve around sex but when you want to meet a person with whom you want more than a f*ck, then yes you let a relationship develop first.
2006-07-17 00:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by lost_realist_84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure it pops into my mind about the guy i meet wondering if there any good and how good,But i think i would just kiss a guy nothing else untill he has real feelings for me and a real trust and relationship is made
2006-07-17 00:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi.....i'm 46 and can safely say that sex is not all i think about....i did all the one night stands and casual relationships years ago in my early 20's......
i've been on my own for 9 years and bringing up my kids,havnt had a relationship in all that time......i've been chatting on here to different ppl for about 6 months and met with a couple,but only met up as friends.....i wasnt interested sexually in them.....
until now.....i have now found someone online that i get on really well with and we are planning to meet in a couple of months.....we chat on web cam and also on the phone.....and this time i do fancy him and he does me too.....
if over the next couple of months our relationship developes and it feels right then we probably will have sex,but its not the be all and end all......
and by the way your b/f answered a question for me and told me about you......he sounds like a good guy......he told me to check out your questions......
2006-07-20 05:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by julie w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That girl called you stupid, but did you see how she spelled it? I hope she was joking.
Anyways, that's a good question. It kind of enters my mind as I wonder how they will be in bed, but if I really like a guy, it usually takes about 6 months before I will sleep with him so those thoughts are have are just that....thoughts.
2006-07-17 00:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know within 10 minutes of talking to a guy if I want to go on a date with him. On that date, I know within the first 30 minutes if I would want to kiss or more with him. By the time I do let myself do more with him, I'm sure I want to be with him...yeah, I've known for awhile before I give in to him.
2006-07-17 00:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by carboncopy3570 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kissing them when u first meet...has happened to me once. and i followed through with it and now we r in a very good relationship. but thinkin bout sex with a person on first meeting hasnt happend. im shy and i like to know who im getting in bed with first...not get in bed and mayb never know who they really were.
2006-07-17 00:41:01 · answer #9 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a smart young lady and I am pleased with your way of thinking!
Continue to use your head you will go far in life!
2006-07-17 00:36:42 · answer #10 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋