i am pretty sure i like him but i don't know who he likes more also my bf dosen't like him as a boy f
2006-07-16 17:25:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my best friend dosen't like him in that way and the dude isn't my boyfriend
2006-07-16 17:46:13 · update #1
Ok... here's the poop. Rightly or wrongly, men get very jealous when other men befriend there girlfriend, fiance, or wife. It ain't about an issue of trust as other women would claim. It's pure animal instinct.
It's the call of the wild where men instinctively protect their females, just in the same way women have the instinct to protect their children. It's bread into every creature on this planet, and we're no exception.
Some men are more jealous than others, and some men will lie to you (perhaps to please you) and say their not jealous, when in fact deep down they are.
So, don't be surprised if your boyfriend doesn't like your male friend as your friend. It's natural that he's jealous. The only thing you can do, is reassure your boyfriend frequently that there is nothing going on between the two of you, and try to stay out of situations where it may look like your going to cheat on him (from his prospective).
Also, consider double dating every now and then. You and your bf, and your male friend with his girlfriend. So everyone gets to know each other.
In time then maybe he will see that your friend is really no threat at all.
2006-07-16 17:43:36 · answer #1 · answered by Microsoft Bob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you should stick with your current boyfriend and let the new guy go after your best friend. If that is too difficult for you to experience, then you should talk to your best friend about the guy and figure out what the best course of action is. It might be smart for both of you to ignore the guy. Your friendship will be long lasting if you don't compete for the same guy. Good Luck
2006-07-17 00:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by marks3kids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a bf already, why are you looking at others, dear? Maybe you're not ready to be an exclusive couple then if you're looking at others. Your bf deserves better so be honest and upfront about it.
2006-07-17 00:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2questions.
1. r u a s lut?
2.why r u into players?
think about it
2006-07-17 00:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, tell ur best friend that u do like him, and if they were a good friend they would understand, even if it is a mistake, tell her it is one u have to make, or u'll never know......
2006-07-17 00:30:16 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ @I_i ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to spend more time with this guy so that he will like you and know you better.
2006-07-17 00:29:03 · answer #6 · answered by realpleya08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u r in a realtionship... what the hell do u care if anyone else is interested in you? isn't your b/f enough for you?
2006-07-17 00:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by half insane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not ruin a friendship over it!!!
2006-07-17 00:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MAke a move.
2006-07-17 00:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by ki_ki_marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋