Is it morally ok to be dating more than one guy at a time??

Answer 1

NO NO NO NO NO!

Answer 2

Morality has nothing to do with it. You aren't married or headed toward marriage (I hope). What you should be concerned about with is lying. It is not necessarily their business to know what you are doing with your time when they aren't around (unless it's screwing high risk people) but you should never openly lie about anything. It's important to assert your right to make your own choices and allow them to either accept you or reject you based on the truth. You don't necessarily bring it up but you don't allow them to think you are monogamous or lie to them in any way. If thinks start to become serious, you need to tell them directly.

Note that by "need" I'm not making a judgement about morality or ethics here (there is no moral obligation outside marriage or children). I'm making an judgement about the wisdom of the act. Failure to act in a certain fashion tends to blow up in your face and cause you problems. It's unnecessary. Simply ASSERT WHAT IT IS YOU WANT BASED ON NO OTHER JUSTIFICATION THAN YOU WANT IT.

Now, I've never heard of a woman doing this. Usually, they let things turn to **** and then cry about it later. However, I do this all the time with women. I've yet to hear a complaint.

Answer 3

How do you feel about it? Do you feel that you are doing something that you are ashamed of? Did you tell the other guys that you are dating more than just them? Are you being responsible sexually? Making them where a condom? Do you tell them both the same thing (i.e. I love you, planning of the future, etc.)

Or is it just a booty call type of thing?

It really depends on the relationships.

I know that I would be really mad if I went down on a woman and tasted that ever so pungent taste of semen.

Do a reality check and see where your answer lies.

Answer 4

Of course it is! Thats why its called dating.. getting to know other people and hopefully without the pressures of sex looming over your head...

Now marrying more than one guy is morally illegal at least in the US but there is a place in Africa that allows a woman to marry more than one man... food for thought...

Answer 5

There is nothig wrong in dating more than one. You are in the process of identifying yuor true friend at this stage. Commitment comes later once you truly find your life partner. Don't attach any morality to dating as long as you are in the process of finding out who your true friend is. Allow no physical intimacies at this stage as they involve you emotionally. To be on the safer side and to avoid regretting at a later stage, be on your watch and just enjoy hanging out.

Answer 6

Personally i dont think it's such a great idea-i mean what if u hurt one of the guys by doing that-wouldnt u feel bad-even if both boys know about each other its still not fair to either on of them-just saying.

Answer 7

The only moral question about it that I see is whether you're lying to anyone or potentially going to hurt someone or get hurt. If not, if you're honest and safe, then it's just the single life.

Answer 8

It's ok if you are just dating and it's nothing serious. If you are honest with these guys and tell them that you are dating other people then there's no problem with that.

Answer 9

If you're not exclusive, then no it's not wrong. Personally, I'd rather focus on one person at a time rather than several. Less complications.

Answer 10

It is if both guys know your policy on dating. Otherwise, no.

Answer 11

if it is just dating go for it! if it's more like boyfriends then it is not fair to any of them