why do my girlfreind do what she do?

Question

see look I can see it in my girlfriend eyes that she loves me but we have petty little problem every now and then and she'll say we need our time and sometimes her friends tell her I'm cheating on her but I'm not and she says she trust her friends but really their just making things bad for us and she always cry when they tell her things cause she love me more than anything and her friends are always trying to push up on me when she's not around and when I tell her the truth it's like she believes me and she holds me tight and tell me just promise you won't never hurt me and then when we get back together their always trying make things bad and when a girl may talk to me in the hallway that she know like me she acts stupid about the situation then I'll have to run behind and let her know she's who I want then I try sweet little ideas like go to her crib later after school and sit down and watch a movie and hold each tight and she accept so all I want to know is what is the problem?

Answer 1

her friends there jealous . jealous of her . she has someone really loyal to her i mean its really cute how you even bother to care unlike some jerk offs . ignore them and take her out call her be around her alot just not to much and as for her friends there jealous so they cant get over it and she needs to drop them honestly and find friends who wont be jealous but supportive of her = ] and you need to tell her that !

Answer 2

I am really not exactly sure what the problem is between the two of you since I am only reading one side, and what your wrote it a little unclear, it is not completely explanatory...except there could be a couple things going on. 1. She really is not ready for a serious relationship if she is listening to her friends and not hearing your side of the story.2. Maybe you are too dependent on her? If you are running after her at school after another girl asks you a question because she is upset,,,3. Maybe she wants you to only talk to her and that is not a healthy relationship. I am not sure how old the two of you are but maybe you guys do need to back off from one another. If she really truly the one for you it just might not be the right time or place. As much as you love her you might need to set her free or maybe the two of you go to counseling together to talk things through. If you guys do cool it for a little while if its meant to be the two of you will be together again. I wish you the best of luck in whatever happens!

Answer 3

Well the way i see it is that she is very insecure. I am sure that she probably loves you but doesn't know how to deal with those feelings and the feelings she has for her friends. They have probably been her friends for awhile and doesn't want to believe that they would sabotage her relationship.She has to learn to trust her feeling, be confident with this relationship, and to have trust in you as her mate. If she cant do that then the relationship will not work, because you will end up always defending yourself to her and her friends.She needs to take a long look at what she really want out of this relationship.

Answer 4

Maybe they want her time and when your around your all she sees,so they play games,time will tell if your the gentleman you say you are and she will see that,life is cruel with alot of head games at every corner and they will be played for many years , thats how live is .in time when she sees that your what you say is true she will learn confidence in herself and have faith in you but shame on you if you build her up then hurt her,girls just think different then boys and they are tought by exsperiance ,she sees pain in other relationships and believes it will happen to her.so continue to comfort and love her and when her friends come onto you when shes not around make it VERY clear that shes the only lady for you,they could be testing you then telling her.just be her best friend and comfort her,and time will heal in everyway.

Answer 5

She's a teenager and her girlfriends have a lot of influence over her because if she listens to them she will be 'accepted'. She needs to find the place where she can trust you without question and you need to let her know that her friends are not living her life, she is living her life & you want to be a part of it.

Answer 6

You had to have done something to lose her trust in you. Think about it. And if not, then you have to have a serious talk with her friends, ask them why they think you're messing around with other girls, convince and show them that you really do love your gf. If they can convince her that ur a bad guy then they can surely convince her that u really do love her.

Answer 7

Her friends are competing against you. But If she is still sleeping in a crib maybe shouldnt do the dirty until she at least has a regular bed.

Answer 8

Her friend's are jealous of what you 2 have for one. For 2 she's proably thinking why would her friend's tell me this if it's not true since their my friend's. For 3 she sounds like she has sercurity issues she needs to work on.

Answer 9

that is quite possibly the longest sentence i have ever read in my life.

quit playing her games... she's a teenage girl. be a teenage boy. i hate to break it to you but, you two won't be together forever (even though you probably have that written on the front of your 5-subject mead notebook).

worry about the things that matter. like school and proper grammar.

Answer 10

you need to leave this chic if she believes her friends over her boyfriend, plus she just wants you all to herself ( not that there is anything wrong with that she but you get what i'm sayin right?) but she wants to control you and have you tied around her finger and have it to where when she says jump you ask how high. leave the girl no matter how much you love her you need to leave her. it will get worse if you don't.