HELP... i need some ways to help my moms stress go awaY!!!?

Question

were having some money problem n there making my mom have nightmares n a lot of stress please help

Answer 1

wow! I know this must be hard on you as well as your mom. Okay first are you old eough to work if so then help her pay the bills if not can you cut grass and then give her the money? I am a mother and I am stressed at times that I have night mares. Tell your mom sweet things out of the blue like I love you and I think your the best in the world. Also remind her how blessed you are for example tell her something like this........ Mom the other day I was reading in a magazine about how we go thrrough life and complain about what we don't have but really we a have alot more thaen most, I also learned that when I get older and things are stressful on me to remember that there is always someone ten times worse off then me. You see if you tell her this maybe she will be able to look at the positive things about her situation and realize that they could be alot worse. Give her lots of hugsetc. If you belong to a church maybe you can talk to the pastor to let him know but tell him not to let your mom know that you called so she isn't emabarrassed and maybe the church will help. The best thing for you to do is not o upset her at all. Do all your chores, don't talk back clean up the house and surprise heretc. Anything to put a smile on her face! You would be surprised how much added stress a child can put on you when your stressed out by talking back or not doing their chores. Stress is serious and that is so sweet for you to be concerned. You take good care of your mom, the best you have ever given her, she really needs you! let me know how it goes e-mail me at [e-mail]

Answer 2

Swty I completely understand where ur coming from. 1st of all i want u 2 understand that what ur going thru is normal. thats what being a mother z. Ur nt the 1st to gio thru it, and u won't b the last. don't feel as if its u or ur kids dat r abnormal. I feel da same way sometimes. I am a single mother, going to school, taking 21 hours and working. I am totally alone. but u know what? EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON & GOD WON'T GIVE US ANYTHING THAT WE CAN'T HANDLE. having a routine z always healthy and good. perhaps u can put the kids down @ a certain time- 8pm, and then u have the rest of the night to urself.and 4 the hungry problem perhaps get a crock pot and put somehing n there than can b ready by the evening, so u don't have to cook hen u get home. Get up 1 hour earlier than usual and do all house chores while every1 z asleep. that shud smooth thngs out a little. As far as ur kids, their absolutely normal. Kids in this generation r totally different than when we were kids, especially girls; they've got attitudes now, nt 2 mention they mature faster now 2. 1st of all, u need to pray 2 God and tell him what u have here, and ask him for some direction and help. U also need to get away by urself once in a while cuz if nt- u will go crazy. being a mother z the hardest job n the world. Going 2 church z also a good getaway, cuz they have free child care. U just need to get a little more organized sweety, u can do it, U R A STRONG WOMAN!!!!!!!!!!!! KEEP GOING FORWARD. the kids will grow up soon, and b4 u know it, ur gna actually miss these days, when their gone. U will realize that these are the best days. another thing u can do z get them 2 b active to burn some energy. good luck and i will pray 4 u.

Answer 3

It is sweet that you want to help your mom. Did you ask her what you can do to help? Sit down and work out a budget with her. Maybe you can help someone in your neighborhood with tasks and earn some extra cash. I don't know your particulars, but she does so ask her or do research and then offer suggestions and help.
There are resources out there on saving money, available government money, money management, etc. Try to search the internet.

Answer 4

We have Government Programs that are in place to help those in need.

These programs are in place to help you and your mom. Just get your brain in gear, and search the Govt. sites, and Community Social Services. It is good that you have asked the question here. Go to Gov't., Politics, and ask, if anyone knows of these programs. Peace...

Answer 5

Just be there for your mom. Tell her that you know that she is doing the best she can and that you love her. Help her out around the house so she has a little less to worry about.

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Pray for her and the situation, and then ask her to pray with you. Show her all God's promises in the Bible. He will make a way, and He will never leave you. Read together some of the Psalms. They are comforting and you can trust God's word to be true.

Answer 8

well... help her around the house... how old are you? cuz you could get a job and help her out... anything to help her will take away stress ive learned it with my mom

Answer 9

I don't know. I am sorry your Mom's being upset has you worried.

Things take time. In time, the truth will be revealed.

Everything passes.

You're in my prayers.

Answer 10

EXCEDRIN TENSION HEADACHE PILLS. GET IN STORE. THEY REALLY HELP. try getting some stress release Cd's they help also. try and fix the money problem. stress is not good it can make real sick and you can end up in hospital. good luck.