My cousin's daughter is getting married. They live far away from me, and so I don't know her very well. In fact, I hardly know her at all! But from what I remember about her, she is a super-nice girl and I want to do something nice, and I really would like to send a wedding gift. (Unfortunately I won't be able to attend the wedding itself...)
What are some wedding gift ideas? Should I attempt to send an actual physical gift item, or, can I send a check or perhaps some cash? And if a check is an acceptable idea, what would be an appropriate amount of money to send? (She lives southern U.S.).
I'm anxious for any ideas. I haven't a clue as to how to proceed. Thanks for any help.
2006-07-16 16:59:49 · 14 answers · asked by Col. Kurtz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
cash is always nice to receive. $50.00-$100.00 should be plenty. If you go with a gift, ask your cousin if she's registered anywhere, and buy her a gift from her registry. if unsure about the gift at all, send the cash along with a really nice card of congrats.
2006-07-16 17:13:43 · answer #1 · answered by Misty B 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The perfect wedding gift should definitely be something personal that the couple might or will enjoy. I would say that the first thing you should do is call your cousin and ask if/where the couple is registered. Picking a gift of the registry ensures that you'll end up giving them something really great.
If they aren't registered, there is nothing wrong with sending money or a gift certificate. At the same time, if you really want to get a present, I would try asking your cousin about the kind of people they both are, what they're into, to get any ideas. Some stuff however, will work for anyone. Luxury items like spa robes, slippers, I always suggest those to people but really it's because most people would love to get them.
Crystal is nice but is going to cost you an arm and a leg to ship. Maybe you can get a nice custom-engraved picture frame with their names and the wedding date on it. They can be simple and fairly inexpensive - but the one I got was one of my favorite gifts from my wedding. Good luck!
2006-07-17 11:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by ykokorocks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cash or a check or a gift card are all out of the question. They are rude gifts because they send the message that you do not care about the receiver. You need to try a little but if you give a gift. My suggestion is to go with something classic, like a piece of crystal. Crystal is not as expensive as it used to be. The traditional wedding gifts are serving pieces and things of that nature. Try shopping at stores like, lenox, restoration factory, Bombay company, possibly bed bath and beyond. Also ask if the couple has a gift wish list on certain companies web sites. That will give you an idea of what the couple wants.
I hope this helps.
2006-07-17 01:16:40 · answer #3 · answered by dar800 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We actually wanted money for our wedding gifts. Money will always come in handy for a newlywed couple. For a family member I would send $100, but any amount is fine. You don't really know her very well, so you could send less. But if you have the money to spare, you could even send more. And never mail cash, always send a check.
2006-07-17 13:36:26 · answer #4 · answered by SweetPea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't send cash - that's never a good idea as it can get lost in the mail and stolen. Send a check....$50 would be a good amount.
I just got married, and even though it was nice that some people got us a gift instead of money, it was even nicer to have some cash for our honeymoon and such.
2006-07-17 07:35:21 · answer #5 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot if ideas. You can send her a check or cash. ($40-$50). You can also send a gift certificate to store in her area. If you want to do something unique, make a box of household goods she will need to get started in her new home and send that to her. Buy a pair of oil lamps and send them to her(with oil).
If she is into charity work, find out her favorite charity and make a donation in her name. Start a savings account for her and her new husband. don't limit yourself to ideas.
2006-07-17 00:10:16 · answer #6 · answered by truckermama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person that wrote that cash was a "rude gift" is obviously out of touch with reality. Also that crystal is cheaper, I don't know where she buys her crystal but our crystal (Baccarat) is not cheap.
Anyways, first idea is to check and see if they have any registries set up. It is always a welcome idea to buy a gift from the registry and of course cash is completely appropriate as well. Give whatever amount you feel comfortable with!
2006-07-17 02:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check their wedding registries online and see if you can find something there. Otherwise, a gift card or a monetary gift is always good. I usually give a gift of $30 and above.
2006-07-17 03:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by mergirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of the stores where couples register, have an online service that you can see what the couple needs. Then you can purchase it from the store & they'll ship it to the couple for you.
Or you could get them a giftcertificate or as someone mentioned, plain ol' cash. Some people think it's impersonal but to me, green goes with anything.
2006-07-17 00:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My daughter just got married, believe me, cash is always appreciated, they can pick and choose their own gift. There is no way of knowing that she will end up with two or three of the same gift (even though she had a wedding registry on line).
2006-07-17 00:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by Clipper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋